The problem of gambler's ruin asks the following: suppose a player begins with $k$ units of money, $0<k<N$. Each turn he flips a coin and either gains a unit of money with probability $p$ or loses a unit of money with probability $1-p$. The game ends when he reaches $N$ and wins or $0$ in which case he loses the game. What is the probability of losing?
The usual solution, which you can find for example on http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gambler%27s_ruin or in Grimmett & Stirzaker - Probability and Random processes, page 17, proceeds by constructing a linear difference equation using the fact (using the notation from wikipedia) that $P(R_n|H)=P(R_{n+1})$ where $R_n$ is the event "that the player is ruined having started with $n$ units of money" and $H$ is the event "of winning the first flip".
What event exactly is $R_n$? Is it correct to consider $H$ to be a single event or should we take a separate event for every coin flip?
The approach taken by Grimmett and Stirzaker seems conceptually the same, but instead of using a single probability measure, they use $P_k$ - the probabilities calculated relative to the starting point $k$. Then they use the equation $P_k(A) = P_k(A|B)P(B) + P_k(A|B^C)P(B^C)$, where A is the event of losing the game and B is the event of winning the first flip. I am not completely sure what they mean by $P$, my best guess is that because the probability of $B$ is independent of $k$, they just drop the index. Next they use the fact that $P_k(A|B) = P_{k+1}(A)$ which looks essentially as expressing the same relation as the equation with $R_n$ before.
Anyway, I haven't been able to completely justify this relation theoretically, so here comes my main question:
How exactly do we justify $P(R_n|H)=P(R_{n+1})$ and $P_k(A|B) = P_{k+1}(A)$?
I have tried translating this problem to a more familiar measure-theoretical language, using $\Omega = \lbrace-1,1\rbrace^\mathbb{N}$ as the underlying sample space and defining $M:\lbrace-1,1\rbrace^\mathbb{N}\times\mathbb{Z}\to\mathbb{N}\cup\lbrace\infty\rbrace,$ $M(f,k) = \min\lbrace m\in\mathbb{N}|\sum_{i=1}^m f(i) = k \rbrace$ (where $\min\emptyset := \infty$), which then enables us to define $R_n = \lbrace f\in\Omega|M(f,-n) < M(f,N-n)\rbrace$ and $H = \lbrace f\in\Omega|f(1) = 1\rbrace,$ but this hasn't given me any new intuition and may not even be the correct formalization.
It seems increasingly likely that I am missing some implicit assumption in the statement of the problem that is obvious to probabilists but not so much to me ... In this case:
What exactly is this assumption?