I understand that there cannot be a bijection between $S$, a finite set, and $S'$, a proper subset of $S$, because $S'$ will contain at least one fewer item than $S$.
What I don't understand is the definition of an infinite set, a set for which there is a bijection between itself and a proper subset of itself.
Take the set of natural numbers $\mathbb{N}$, which is infinite. Then isn't the set $A$ $=$ { 1, 2, 3 } a proper subset of $\mathbb{N}$ yet not a bijection of $\mathbb{N}$? What am I missing?