Why we can't define $\frac{1}{0}$ to be $1$ (or anything else), but we can define $1^0$ to be $1$? We know that we can't define division by zero "in any mathematical system that obeys the axioms of a field", because it would be inconsistent with such axioms.
(1) Why can we define $a^0$ ($a\neq 0$) to be $1$? Is it possible to prove that such definition is consistent with any rule of arithmetic? How to conclude that to define $a^0$ ($a\neq 0$) we don't need abolish any other basic rule of arithmetic?
(2) More generally, how to know if a definition is consistent with a given mathematical theory?
 A: There is no general algorithm for determining when a theory is consistent.  That is a huge topic which includes Godel's incompleteness theorems.  But your specific question is easier.
In Peano arithmetic (with axioms stated using $+,\times$) an exponential function $x^y$ can be defined by recursion $x^0=1$ and $x^{s(y)}=x\times x^{y}$.  The axioms prove that functions can be defined recursion.  So if you believe (as nearly everyone does) that  Peano arithmetic (with axioms stated using $+,\times$) is consistent, then you must believe the extension with that exponential function is consistent.
Since your question mentions basic rules of arithmetic I answered in terms of Peano Arithmetic. If you merely want consistency with the field axioms the question is simpler yet: The field of integers modulo 2 proves consistency of those axioms plus $x^1=x$ and $x^0=1$, by giving a finite model.  But this includes very little of arithmetic and notably does not include $x^{(y+z)}=x^y\times x^z$. See "finite field" on Wikipedia.
A: We don't actually define $1^0$ to be 1.  That's its value.  Likewise $0^0=1$ is a derived value, the supposed indefinite values all rely on the same $0/0$ proof that lets $0=1$.  If you take the limit of $x^{ax}$ as x-> 0, the limit is 1 for all a.
When you ask how one plans to go towards zero, a step right is either by way of root, eg square-root, or by way of division.
Roots are a matter of dividing a positive number by a positive number, and this never goes to zero.
Division implies $0/0$ is being used, ie to suppose $0^0=0$, implies that you can reach $0$ by division of non-zero numbers, or that you can reach $0$ by division.  Since the first is not accepted in maths, it implies that $0^0=0$ arises from division by zero.
