Skew-symmetric operators on almost complex symplectic vector spaces Let $V$ be a vector space over a field $F$ endowed by an $\omega$ symplectic (i.e. nondegenerate, skew-symmetric bilinear) form and by a $J: V\to V$ compatible complex structure, i.e. by such a linear operator, that 


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*$J^2=-id_V$ 

*The map $g_\omega: V^2\to F: (u,v)\mapsto\omega(u,Jv)$ is a
nondegenerate symmetric, positive definite bilinear form (i.e. an inner product) on $V$.
Let $A$ be a linear operator on $V$. 
Is it true, that the following two statements are equivalent?


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*For all $u,v\in V$ $\omega(Au,v)=-\omega(u,Av)$ 

*For all $u,v\in V$
$g_\omega(Au,v)=-g_\omega(u,Av)$


Is the answer the same for finite dimensional and infinite dimensional vector spaces?
 A: The answer to your first question is in general no;  you need linear operators $A$ commuting with $J$. In fact, if 1. is true, then
$$g_\omega(Au,v):=\omega(Au, Jv)=(1.)=-\omega(u,AJv); $$
if $JA=AJ$ then $-\omega(u,AJv)=-\omega(u,JAv):=-g_\omega(u, Av)$ and you obtain 2.
Viceversa, if 2. is true then
$$g_\omega(Au,v)=-g_\omega(u,Av)\Leftrightarrow \omega(Au,Jv)=-\omega(u,JAv); $$
once again, if $JA=AJ$ then $\omega(Au,Jv)=-\omega(u,JAv)=-\omega(u,AJv),$ i.e.
$$ \omega(Au,w)=-\omega(u,Aw)$$
for all $u\in V$ and $w=Jv$ for $v\in V$. 
To obtain condition 1. we are left to prove surjectivity of $J$ on $V$: 
$$\forall w\in V~\exists v\in V~:~ w= Jv.$$
choosing $v:=-Jw$ one gets it.
A: Let's focus on the finite-dimensional case to begin with.  Throughout I'll assume that $F$ is $\mathbb{R}$, since this is really what you want in order to talk about a "symmetric, positive definite bilinear form".  Let $\dim V = 2n$.
It's a standard fact (which you may well know) that given $V$ (finite dimensional) and $\omega$, $J$ and $g$ as you describe (a "compatible triple"), we can pick a basis for $V$ with respect to which $\omega$, $J$ and $g$ take their standard forms.  So $g$ is given by the $2n \times 2n$ identity matrix, $J$ is given by the matrix $J_0$ representing the complex structure on $\mathbb{C}^n \cong \mathbb{R}^{2n}$, and $\omega$ is given by $-J_0$.  We may therefore assume that $V$ is just this standard prototypical example.
Now try writing out what the two statements mean in matrix form, and see where that gets you.
