If a relation is symmetric and transitive, will it be reflexive? 
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Why isn't reflexivity redundant in the definition of equivalence relation? 

We had a heated discussion in class today and i still cant be sure if the professor was any good with the solution. The question is:

If a relation is symmetric and transitive, then it will be reflexive too. True/False?

I think it is true.
But if someone can give me the counter example! 
Source: Exercise 8.46, P195 of Mathematical Proofs, 2nd (not 3rd) ed. by Chartrand et al
 A: One should say, not simply that a relation is reflexive, but that it is reflexive on some particular set.  For every relation that is symmetric and transitive, there is some set on which it is reflexive.  In one case, that is the empty set.
Later note: I see that some people don't like this answer very much, so I'll add something to it and see if they like it better.
Apparently someone was responding to the sentence that says "In one case, that is the empty set" by saying every relation is reflexive on the empty set.  But in fact it is the restriction of the relation to the empty set that is reflexive on the empty set.  If you speak of a relation as a whole rather than of its restriction to some set, then there is only one set on which it is reflexive.
"ccc" says "every relation is reflexive on some set", and that is true, and adds "so this is quite tautological as stated".  Just how that is an objection to what I said escapes me.
If a relation $R$ is symmetric and transitive, then it follows that it is reflexive on the set $\{x : \exists y\  \  xRy \}$ or on $\{x: \exists y\  \  yRx\}$.  It is not reflexive on any smaller set---rather its restriction to that smaller set is reflexive on that smaller set.  Nor is it reflexive on any larger set.
So after it has been stated that a relation is symmetric and transitive, it follows that there is just one set on which it is reflexive and therefore just one set on which it is an equivalence relation.
The only reason "reflexive" gets added to "symmetric" and "transitive" is this: One wants to specify some particular set on which the relation is reflexive.
Someone said the relation $R=\{(1,1)\}$ on the set $\{1,2\}$ is not reflexive.  But the relation $R=\{(1,1)\}$ is not "on the set ${1,2}$" unless one adds that to the definition of relation; i.e. the set $\{x : \exists y\  \  xRy\}$ is not $\{1,2\}$.  I think that proposition should be phrased thus: The relation $\{(1,1)\}$ is not reflexive on the set $\{1,2\}$.
A: No, it is false. Consider for example the empty relation, i.e. no two elements of a non-empty set are in the relation $R$. Then $R$ is transitive and symmetric, but not reflexive. However, if for every $a$ there is $b$, such that $aRb$, then by symmetry $bRa$ and by transitivity $aRa$. This is the necessary and sufficient condition for a symmetric and transitive relation to be reflexive.
