To prove by vector method , non-parallel sides of a trapezium having equal diagonals are equal.

How do we prove by vector method that "if the diagonals of a trapezium have equal length then the non-parallel sides of the trapezium have equal length." ?

(taking $ABCD$ to be the trapezium with $AD$ || $BC$ and $O$ the intersection point of diagonals , if it can be shown by vector method that $OB=OC$ , then $AB=CD$ follows ; I can show $OB=OC$ but not by vector method and thus the problem , though any other line of approach is acceptable.)

Let as in the question , $ABCD$ be the trapizium with $AD||BC$ ; w.r.t. some chosen origin let $\vec {AD}=\vec{x}$ and $\vec {DC}=\vec{y}$ , then $\vec{CB}=-t\vec x$ for some $t>0$ . Now

$\vec {AB}=\vec{AD}+\vec{DC}+\vec{CB}=\vec x+\vec y-t\vec x$ , $\vec{AC}=\vec{AD}+\vec{DC}=\vec x+\vec y$ and

$\vec{DB}=\vec{DC}+\vec{CB}=\vec y-t\vec x$. Now given $|\vec{AC}|=|\vec{DB}|$ , so

$0=|\vec{AC}|^2-|\vec{DB}|^2=(\vec{AC}-\vec{DB}).(\vec{AC}+\vec{DB})=(\vec x+t\vec x).(\vec x+2\vec y -t\vec x)$

$=\Big((1+t)\vec x \Big).(\vec x+2\vec y -t\vec x)=(1+t)\Big(\vec x.(\vec x+2\vec y -t\vec x)\Big)$ [using $m(\vec a.\vec b)=(m\vec a).\vec b$]

hence either $1+t=0$ , or $\vec x.(\vec x+2\vec y -t\vec x)=0$ , now in the former case $t=-1<0$ ,

contradiction! hence $\vec x.(\vec x+2\vec y -t\vec x)=0$ ....(i) . Hence

$|\vec{AB}|^2-|\vec{DC}|^2=(\vec {AB}-\vec{DC}).(\vec{AB}+\vec{DC})=(\vec x-t\vec x).(\vec x+2\vec y -t\vec x)$

$=\Big((1-t)\vec x \Big).(\vec x+2\vec y -t\vec x)=(1-t)\Big(\vec x.(\vec x+2\vec y -t\vec x)\Big)=0$$\space [using (i)] , and this was to be proved. Beginning from the left-up vertex, name the trapezium vertices \;A,B,C,D\;, with the shortest basis up \;AB\;, the largets one down \;CD\; , and define$$\begin{cases}\vec{AB}=u\\\vec{BC}=v\\CD=-tu\;,\;\;t>1\end{cases}\implies\begin{cases}\vec{AC}=u+v\\\vec{BD}=-tu+v\\\vec{AD}=u+v-tu=(1-t)u+v\end{cases}$$Now use the usual dot product \;\langle\,,\,\rangle\; , and (do the complete claculations):$$||AC||^2=||BD||^2\iff \langle u+v\,,\,u+v\rangle\iff(t^2-1)||u||^2-2(t+1)\langle u,v\rangle=0\stackrel{\text{(why?)}}\iff\iff t-1=\frac{2\langle u,v\rangle}{||u||^2}$$and now, upon substituting corresponding stuff:$$||AD||^2=||v||^2=||BC||^2\;\;\ldots$\$