$\epsilon, \delta$...So what? Over the course of my studies I often encounter phrases in reference material of the type "and this avoids the need for using $\epsilon$, $\delta$ definitions" or "by this we can omit those complicated $\epsilon, \delta$ arguments", etc. In other words performing stunts in order to get around $\epsilon, \delta$. I've seen enough of this to think that it should be categorized as epsilondeltophobia, if you all will permit. Personally, I was thrilled to learn definitions in these terms because it was one of the first rigorous definitions given to me, all in terms of quantifier logic, and it was used for very fundamental things whose real meaning I always wondered about. In the beginning of course I didn't have a clue how to use the language, but I loved it anyways because it was like, "wooow, deep maan". Not to mention that later on, I began to see that all of the higher-order constructions that were built upon $\epsilon, \delta$-objects worked out perfectly, giving me more satisfaction that whoever came up with $\epsilon, \delta$ language knew what they were doing. So I'm not saying that it's not ok to develop an epsilondeltophobia, as we all do naturally in the beginning...but textbooks (some) seem to promote this fear, even some teachers, and this is what I'm not happy about. I think $\epsilon, \delta$ is great.
Question: who thinks likewise? oppositely?
Edit: I don't want this to come off as a pedantic "rigor or death" statement, or as a suggestion that first courses on calculus should always include $\epsilon, \delta$ (although maybe yes in mathematics). I'm just against the predisposal to it in a negative way.
 A: It turns out that engineers, scientists, and financial folks need to use calculus, but they don't need to understand calculus.
The construction of the typical university education feeds all of those students, plus math students, through the same introductory calculus courses. This is done for cost efficiency, and also because of a potentially mis-placed ideal that career mathematicians should teach mathematics to people for whom mathematics is ultimately really just an annoying means to an end.
So eliding $\epsilon - \delta$ arguments streamlines this process, saving trouble for the students and the instructors, at the expense of the math students. But those math students will encounter it later, anyways.
I'm not saying it's the best approach, but it's a bit more efficient perhaps. Mechanical engineers don't want to learn $\epsilon - \delta$, and math professors don't want to teach $\epsilon - \delta$ to students who will never truncate a Taylor series beyond the linear term.
A: $(\epsilon,\delta)$ techniques are fundamental to developing the foundations of real analysis, but sometimes insight can be gained via alternative techniques that one doesn't see as readily via $(\epsilon,\delta)$.  Consider for example the failure of the squaring function to be uniformly continuous. This is quite a tedious exercise to motivate if you are limited to $(\epsilon,\delta)$ techniques. Possibly 90% of undergraduates will be unable to reproduce such an exercise other than in a passive way.
An alternative possibility would be to note that $f(x)=x^2$ fails to be microcontinuous at a single infinite point $H$ and is therefore not uniformly continuous.  In this approach uniform continuity is defined by requiring $f$ to be microcontinuous at all points (standard and nonstandard) of its extended hyperreal domain.  Thus, if one considers an infinitesimal $\alpha=\frac{1}{H}$, then $f(H+\alpha)=H^2+2+\alpha^2$ and $f(H+\alpha)-f(H)=2+\alpha^2$ which is not infinitesimal. Thus we see that $f$ is not microcontinuous at $H$.
This definition makes it transparent that uniform continuity in this case has to do with the behavior of the function "at infinity".  This remark can be formalized in the context of an infinitesimal-enriched continuum, but cannot be formalized in the context of the real continuum.
Thus the $(\epsilon,\delta)$ approach has its advantages but it also has serious pedagogical shortcomings.
A: I think that is a complex issue; we have both pedagocical aspects and "foundational" ones.
First, according to my point of view, and assuming that I'm not prepared to discuss the pedagogical side, I think that we cannot avoid in teaching mathematics (and not only) some amount of "dogmatism". Past failure in the efforts to introduce naive set language in advance to elementary arithmetics was significative.
Try for a moment with this "conceptual experiment" : teaching in secondary school algebra and calculus starting from axiomatized $ZF$ and building all mathematical stuff "from scratch" (the empty set) . Do we really think it feasible ?
A recent book by John Stilwell, The Real Numbers An Introduction to Set Theory and Analysis (2013), start with the following consideration :

any book that revisits the foundations of analysis has to reckon with the formidable precedent of Edmund Landau’s Grundlagen der Analysis (Foundations of Analysis) of 1930. [...] so few books since 1930 have even attempted to include the construction of the
  real numbers in an introduction to analysis. On the one hand, Landau’s account is
  virtually the last word in rigor. [...] On the other hand, Landau’s book is almost pathologically reader-unfriendly.

I've tried re-reading Landau : it is very "unfriendly" !
Second : please, don't forget the enormous amount of effort it takes, form Newton and Leibniz until (at least) Cauchy (see the wonderful book of Judith Grabiner, The Origins of Cauchy's Rigorous Calculus - 1981) to "distill" the rigorous $(\epsilon − \delta)$ definition! And also mathematical standards of "rigor" are evolving. 
I spoke above about "dogmatism" (suggestion : think how to apply Thomas Khun's considerations in SSR about the "positive" role of dogmatism in "normal science" to mathematics). 
My personal feeling is that the best antidote to the (unavoidable) use of dogmatism in teaching is the historical perspective: to learn how we arrived at current ideas (included our current standard of rigor and our current ideas about "foundations") can be very useful.
A: There's definitely something to @Arkamis's remarks (if they are somewhat more relevant to the American system), but there's also something to be said for the opposite.
$\epsilon-\delta$ language tends to be overly technical; it's simple enough to phrase to 1st year students, and precise enough to practice rigorous mathematics, but all these technicalities can also obscure the point (a la the famous trees-forest analogy). The concepts of open sets and preimages under functions can be somewhat more powerful, and/or point to the crux of the proposition one considers, whereas having to deal with too many quantifiers might be cumbersome.
So, when you see proper math textbooks using seemingly complex constructs to avoid speaking in $\epsilon-\delta$ language, I put forward that most of the time that is done in the name of abstractness, to better phrase underlying concepts, or better deal with new and more general notions the author wishes to present.

I had to return here when I encountered this, an example where OP did a great job solving a problem with $\epsilon-\delta$ techniques, but still seemed to be feeling uncomfortable with the results. For my money, that's exactly because this language hides the crux of the problem, the reason things work the way they do. Having completed the exercise, I believe OP still wouldn't have pinned the underlying property that's present in the cases for which the answer is 'yes', and absent where it's 'no'.
A: I believe that the pushback against $\epsilon,\delta$ definitions (which unfortunately spills over to pushback against $\epsilon,\delta$ techniques) is entirely justified because $\epsilon,\delta$ definitions arise from the (unfortunately widespread) confusion between a statement being formal and a statement being rigorous.
Consider the formal "definition" of continuity of a function $f$ at a point $a$:
$$\forall\epsilon\exists\delta\forall x(0<|x-a|<\delta\rightarrow |f(x)-f(a)|<\epsilon)$$ This is just an objuscated way of stating the informal, but rigorous:

For every ball $B_{f(a)}$ centered at $f(a)$, there is a ball $B_a$ centered at $a$ so that $f$ sends every point of $B_a$ into $B_{f(a)}$.

which is logically equivalent to the conceptually clearer, though still informal, though still rigorous:

Whenever the image $f(S)$ of a set $S$ is separated from the image $f(a)$ of a point $a$, the set $S$ was already separated from the point $a$.

which is the contrapositive of the, informal and rigorous, intuitive definition of continuity of $f$ at a point $a$:

Whenever a set $S$ of points are close to a point $a$, the set of images $f(S)$ of those points are close to image point $f(a)$.

I strongly believe that the equivalence of the blocked statements and the IDEA that equivalence expresses, which is that we CAN distill an intuitive notion into a rigorous definition, is much more interesting, important, and memorable, than the formal $\epsilon,\delta$ "definition". Furthermore, I can't even bring myself to calling the formal "definition" a definition, since what it expresses is not a description of what it means for a function to be continuous, but a technique (of $\epsilon,\delta$ proofs) for how to check that a function is continuous.
This, in my opinion, is the reason for the pushback against $\epsilon,\delta$ "definition" and arguments: instead of expressing the rigorous idea or concept of continuity, the $\epsilon,\delta$ "definition" only gives a technique for working with continuity, and, when presented as a definition, only obfuscates the meaning of the concept (in a very efficient way, I might add, since the path from the intuitive and meaningful definition to the $\epsilon,\delta$ definition involves taking a contrapositive...). 
Finally, I do think that being aware of how to rigorously translate (as above) from the intuitive definition of continuity to the statement of the $\epsilon,\delta$ technique will certainly not hurt, and I suspect could actually help students in using the ($\epsilon,\delta$) technique, especially with the simple functions that arise in Calculus and basic analysis. 
(Someone might criticize the above saying that the notion of a ball is confusing in single-variable Calculus. My perhaps controversial response is that there really isn't any good reason not to teach Calculus using $2$ or $3$ variables from day $1$ and that the narrow viewpoint offered by single-variable Calculus obscures more than it simplifies).
