Here's a simple argument that I think agrees with the initial discussion on this question some years ago, to the effect that the stress tensor quoted in the original question is not in agreement with the result and in fact should be the transpose of what's shown.
Inner product of del with stress tensor: $\nabla.$T
$\nabla=(\partial_{x}\mathbf{i}+\partial_{y}\mathbf{j}+\partial_{z}\mathbf{k)}$,
and $\textbf{T }$is the second order stress tensor $\tau_{ij}$ with
components $\left(\begin{array}{ccc}
\tau_{11} & \tau_{12} & \tau_{13}\\
\tau_{21} & \tau_{22} & \tau_{23}\\
\tau_{31} & \tau_{32} & \tau_{33}
\end{array}\right)$, which can also be expressed as $\tau_{11}\mathbf{ii}+\tau_{12}\mathbf{ij}+\tau_{13}\mathbf{ik}+\tau_{21}\mathbf{ji}+\tau_{22}\mathbf{jj}+\tau_{23}\mathbf{jk}+\tau_{31}\mathbf{ki}+\tau_{32}\mathbf{kj}+\tau_{33}\mathbf{kk}$
Using the rule that for the vector $\textbf{a }$ and dyad (second order
tensor) $\textbf{bc }$(the product of vectors $\textbf{b }$and $\textbf{c}$)
we have $\textbf{a.(bc) = (a.b)c}$, then:
$$
\nabla.\mathbf{T=}(\partial_{x}\mathbf{i}+\partial_{y}\mathbf{j}+\partial_{z}\mathbf{k)}.\left(\tau_{11}\mathbf{ii}+\tau_{12}\mathbf{ij}+\tau_{13}\mathbf{ik}+\tau_{21}\mathbf{ji}+\tau_{22}\mathbf{jj}+\tau_{23}\mathbf{jk}+\tau_{31}\mathbf{ki}+\tau_{32}\mathbf{kj}+\tau_{33}\mathbf{kk}\right)
$$
$$
=\left(\partial_{x}\mathbf{i}.\tau_{11}\mathbf{ii}\right)+\left(\partial_{x}\mathbf{i}.\tau_{12}\mathbf{ij}\right)+...+\left(\partial_{x}\mathbf{i}.\tau_{33}\mathbf{kk}\right)+\left(\partial_{y}\mathbf{j}.\tau_{11}\mathbf{ii}\right)+\left(\partial_{y}\mathbf{j}.\tau_{12}\mathbf{ij}\right)+...+\left(\partial_{y}\mathbf{j}.\tau_{33}\mathbf{kk}\right)+\left(\partial_{z}\mathbf{k}.\tau_{11}\mathbf{ii}\right)+\left(\partial_{z}\mathbf{k}.\tau_{12}\mathbf{ij}\right)+...+\left(\partial_{z}\mathbf{k}.\tau_{33}\mathbf{kk}\right)
$$
$$
=\left(\partial_{x}\tau_{11}\mathbf{\left(i.i\right)i}\right)+\left(\partial_{x}\tau_{12}\mathbf{\left(i.i\right)j}\right)+...+\left(\partial_{x}\tau_{33}\mathbf{\left(i.k\right)k}\right)+\left(\partial_{y}\tau_{11}\mathbf{\left(j.i\right)i}\right)+\left(\partial_{y}\tau_{12}\mathbf{\left(j.i\right)j}\right)+...+\left(\partial_{y}\tau_{33}\mathbf{\left(j.k\right)k}\right)+\left(\partial_{z}\tau_{11}\mathbf{\left(k.i\right)i}\right)+\left(\partial_{z}\tau_{12}\mathbf{\left(k.i\right)j}\right)+...+\left(\partial_{z}\tau_{33}\mathbf{\left(k.k\right)k}\right)
$$
And all of the inner products are zero apart from $\mathbf{i.i}$,
$\mathbf{j.j}$ and $\mathbf{k.k}$ which equal 1, so the above reduces
to:
$$
=\partial_{x}\tau_{11}\mathbf{i}+\partial_{x}\tau_{12}\mathbf{j}+\partial_{x}\tau_{13}\mathbf{k}+\partial_{y}\tau_{21}\mathbf{i}+\partial_{y}\tau_{22}\mathbf{j}+\partial_{y}\tau_{23}\mathbf{k}+\partial_{z}\tau_{31}\mathbf{i}+\partial_{z}\tau_{32}\mathbf{j}+\partial_{z}\tau_{33}\mathbf{k}
$$
$$
=\left(\partial_{x}\tau_{11}+\partial_{y}\tau_{21}+\partial_{z}\tau_{31}\right)\mathbf{i}+\left(\partial_{x}\tau_{12}+\partial_{y}\tau_{22}+\partial_{z}\tau_{32}\right)\mathbf{j}+\left(\partial_{x}\tau_{13}+\partial_{y}\tau_{23}+\partial_{z}\tau_{33}\right)\mathbf{k}
$$