For $i = 1, \ldots, k$ and $j = 1,\ldots, n_i$, let $X_{i,j} \in \mathbb{R}^{p \times 1}$'s be independent identically distributed $N_p(\mu, \Sigma)$ random variables, and, independent to $X_{i,j}$'s, let $\epsilon_{i,j}$'s be independent identically distributed $N(0, \sigma_{\epsilon}^2)$ random variables. Write $N = \sum_{i=1}^kn_i$. For each $i = 1, \ldots, k$, let $u_i$ be independent identically distributed $N(0, \sigma_u^2)$ random variables which is independent to both $X_{i,j}$'s and $\epsilon_{i,j}$'s. Fix $a \in \mathbb{R}$ and $b \in \mathbb{R}^p$. For each $i,j$, put :
\begin{equation*} Y_{i,j} = a + b^T X_{i,j} + u_i + \epsilon_{i,j} \end{equation*}
That is, linear mixed model with random intercept on $k$ classes . Let $Z$ be the $(p+1) \times N$ matrix:
\begin{equation*} Z = \begin{bmatrix} X_{1,1}&X_{1,2}&\cdots& X_{1,n_1} & \cdots & X_{k, n_k}\\ Y_{1,1}&Y_{1,2}&\cdots& Y_{1,n_1} & \cdots & Y_{k, n_k} \end{bmatrix} \end{equation*}
The question is how to write the distribution of $Z$ as a matrix variate normal distribution. Write $X_{i,j}=[X_{i,j}^{(1)}, \ldots, X_{i,j}^{(p)}]^T$. We have :
\begin{equation*} \text{Vec}(Z^T) = \begin{bmatrix} X_{1,1}^{(1)}\\ X_{1,2}^{(1)}\\ \vdots \\ X_{1, n_1}^{(1)}\\ \vdots \\ X_{k, n_k}^{(1)}\\ \vdots \\ X_{1,1}^{(p)} \\ \vdots \\ X_{k, n_k}^{(p)}\\ Y_{1,1} \\ \vdots \\ Y_{k, n_k} \end{bmatrix} \end{equation*}
It seems that the $X$ part of $\text{Vec}(Z^T)$ has covariance matrix $\Sigma \otimes I_N$. However, the $Y$ part seems to need a matrix like $E$, where $E$ is block diagonal matrix with $1_{n_i}1_{n_i}^T$ as blocks. Here $1_n \in \mathbb{R}^{n \times 1}$ denotes the vector of entry $1$ everywhere. So that, it seems impossible to write that $Z$ follows $N_{p+1,N}$ distribution with some covariance matrix in format $A \otimes B$, where $A$ is $(p+1)\times (p+1)$ and $B$ is $N \times N$. I am probably missing something obvious.
If matrix variate normal does not work out for $Z$, is there any way to write a matrix containing all $X$'s and $Y$'s so that the result is a matrix normal distribution?