As mentioned in the comments, it seems unlikely that Troy Barcume's result, whatever it was, is published anywhere.
On the other hand, we have the paper The Complete Catalog of 3-Regular, Diameter-3 Planar Graphs by Robert Pratt, which solves the problem by an exhaustive search. The search space is finite by the Moore bound: in any $3$-regular graph with diameter $3$, there are at most $1 + 3 + 3\cdot 2 + 3 \cdot 2^2 = 22$ vertices. Moreover, the Hoffman and Singleton paper On Moore Graphs with Diameters 2 and 3 shows that for regular graphs with diameter $2$ and $3$, only finitely many cases achieve the moore bound, and this is not one of them; therefore the maximum number of vertices is $20$.
It has been a while since 1996; we have much faster computers, and software like plantri. So I decided to see if we could make the exhaustive search easier to replicate.
Let's begin by showing that any large $3$-regular planar graph with diameter $3$ is $3$-edge-connected. (Or, equivalently, $3$-vertex connected; edge and vertex connectivity are equal for $3$-regular graphs.)
Suppose not: let $G$ be $3$-regular with diameter $3$, and suppose there is some set $X \subseteq E(G)$, with $|X| \le 2$, such that $G-X$ has two components, $G_1$ and $G_2$. If either $G_1$ or $G_2$ had only $1$ or $2$ vertices, they would not be able to get enough edges for $G$ to be $3$-regular. So each has at least $3$ vertices, which means that each one has a vertex not incident on an edge in $X$. Let $v_1 \in V(G_1)$ and $v_2 \in V(G_2)$ be two such vertices. Since the diameter of $G$ is $3$, there must be a $v_1 - v_2$ path of length $3$ or less. The edge from $X$ on that path must be the middle edge, which means that both $v_1$ and $v_2$ must be adjacent to an endpoint of an edge in $X$. With this constraint, there can only be at most $4$ such vertices in each of $G_1$ or $G_2$; together with the endpoints of edges in $X$ (also at most $4$) there can be at most $12$ vertices in $G$. (Moreover, either all vertices in $G_1$ are adjacent to endpoints of both edges in $X$, or else all vertices in $G_2$ are; this rules out $12$ vertices, too.)
Why do we want $3$-connectivity? Because now the dual of $G$ is, first of all, uniquely defined; second, it is a planar triangulation. If $G$ has at most $20$ vertices, then it has at most $30$ edges, so its dual has at most $12$ vertices.
Here is some Mathematica code that runs plantri (well, assuming you separately have plantri) to search the $12$-vertex planar triangulations to see if any of their duals have diameter $3$:
plantri = StartProcess[{"C:/graphtools/plantri", "12", "-d", "-g"}];
Timing[Length[output = Reap[
While[(line = ReadLine[plantri]) =!= EndOfFile,
Sow[ImportString[line, "Graph6"]]]][[2, 1]]]]
Tally[GraphDiameter /@ output]
This outputs two things. First, something like {42.9375, 7595}
, which says that in less than 43 seconds, plantri found $7595$ triangulations on $12$ vertices. Second, {{6, 4313}, {5, 3210}, {7, 72}}
, which says that the diameters of their duals range from $5$ to $7$, and certainly none of them have diameter $3$.
We can repeat this with $12$ replaced by $11$, $10$, $9$, and finally $8$ (an $8$-vertex planar triangulation has $18$ edges, so its dual is a $12$-vertex $3$-regular graph). It is not until the very end that we see any graphs with diameter $3$, and then Select[output, GraphDiameter[#] == 3 &]
produces
