I'll add to the answers already given by giving yet another reason for Hausdorfficity (and paracompactness, incidentally).
A topological space is a topological manifold if and only if it is locally Euclidean and admits partitions of unity subordinate to any open cover.
A proof of this is added at the end of this answer.
The use of these partitions of unity is to pass from local geometry to global geometry. For example, to get a Riemannian metric, you take an open cover consisting of Euclidean spaces, you put metrics on each of these (this is easy, they're Euclidean), and then glue them together using a partition of unity subordinate to this cover. You'll rarely see the Hausdorffness or paracompactness invoked directly, but partitions of unity pop up in a whole lot of proofs.
The alternative definition of manifolds follows immediately from the following topological lemma (I take "locally $T_1$" to mean that every point has a $T_1$ open neighborhood).
Let $X$ be a topological space. The following are equivalent:
$\bullet$ $X$ is locally $T_1$ and has partitions of unity subordinate to any open cover;
$\bullet$ $X$ is $T_2$ and paracompact.
The implication from the second bullet to the first can be found in Lee's book on topological manifolds. To go from the first to the second, one uses that partitions of unity imply paracompactness (this is exercise 4-33 in Lee's book, which I will not spoil, partly because professor Lee doesn't like it when you do that, partly because I haven't done the exercise). To get global $T_1$-ness, take an open cover $\{U_i\}_{i \in I}$ of $X$ consisting of $T_1$ sets, and let $\{\rho_i\}_{i \in I}$ be a partition of unity subordinate to this cover. Let $x \in X$, and $I_1 = \{i \in I \mid x \in \text{Supp}(\rho_i)\}$. Then $\bigcap_{i \in I_1} \text{Supp}(\rho_i)$ is a closed $T_1$ neighborhood of $x$, proving that $x$ is closed in $X$.
Now if $x$ and $y$ are distinct points of $X$, $\{X \setminus x, Y \setminus y\}$ is an open cover of $X$. Using the existence of partitions of unity we find $\rho{:}X \rightarrow [0,1]$ such that $\rho(x) = 1$ and $\rho(y) = 0$. The open sets $\rho^{-1}([0,{1}/{2}[)$ and $\rho^{-1}(]{1}/{2},1])$ now separate $x$ and $y$.