The standard definition of a hyperbolic equilibrium point $p \in M$ of a sufficiently smooth vector field $X$ on a sufficiently smooth manifold $M$ is that i.) $X(p) = 0$; and
ii.) the eigenvalues $\lambda_k = \sigma_k + i\omega_k$ of the Jacobian matrix of $X$ at $p$, i.e. the matrix $\begin{bmatrix}\frac{\partial X^i}{\partial x^j} \end{bmatrix}(p)$, where the $x^j$ are local coordinates near $p$, all have non-zero real parts. Thus the equilibria at which all eigenvalues have positive or negative real parts are admitted as hyperbolic under this definition. Purely attracting equilibria (all $\sigma_k < 0$) as well as purely repelling equilibria (all $\sigma_k > 0$) are included in the general class of "hyperbolic equilibria", even though the flow $\phi_X$ of $X$ near these points lacks the saddle-like structure one is used to associating with the term "hyperbolic". Of course, in the event that some $\sigma_k < 0$ and some $\sigma_k > 0$ at $p$ then the usual saddle-like structure appears in the dynamics of $X$ and $\phi_X$ near $p$, and most of the integral curves will look in some ways like the hyperbolas we see in classic analytic geometry. Stable and unstable manifolds of $p$ are defined in all cases with $\sigma_k \ne 0$, though they may indeed be vacuous or, at the other extreme, open subsets of the manifold $M$.
The choice of the term "hyperbolic" to cover the case all $\sigma_k \ne 0$ is apparently of historical origin, though it is perhaps not always geometrically lucid. Check out
this widipedia page for more details. Any any good book which covers the qualitative theory of ordinary differential equations should also treat these matters; one of may favorites is Jack K. Hale's Ordinary Differential Equations which is available in paperback from Dover Press. See section III.6, pp. 106-117, for a very detailed discussion.
Similar terminology applies to periodic orbits and invariant submanifolds, if I am not mistaken, though the analogous definitions may be considerably more complicated. The references I cited should provide many leads into these subjects.
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