There is an important watershed between finite-dimensional and infinite-dimensional representations of both/either Lie algebras and Lie groups, especially for non-compact Lie groups, most of whose irreducible unitary representations are definitely not finite-dimensional.
Thus, @Elliot's recommendation of Fulton-Harris seems to be a popular one, connecting to finite-dimensional representation theory...
But all but the trivial finite-dimensional repns of infinite-dimensional [Edit! non-compact! :)] Lie groups, like $SL_2(\mathbb R)$, are not unitary. The unitary repns of $SL_2(\mathbb R)$ and such are infinite-dimensional.
For the latter, one of the most congenial paper books is Varadarajan's Cambridge-Press "Harmonic analysis on semi-simple Lie groups". Formal treatments are Knapp's (Princeton Press) and Wallach's (Academic Press).
Harish-Chandra discovered in the 1950s that the repn theory of semi-simple or reductive Lie groups, not only compact ones as considered by Weyl 20+ years earlier, was well-delineated by Lie algebra repns, maybe remembering also the repn theory restricted to a maximal compact. Thus, $\frak{g}$,$K$-modules.
Perhaps the questioner can clarify their needs...