Given is a homogenous polynomial $p$ of degree $3$ with $n$ terms where the coefficients can only be $\pm1$. The polynomial has $m$ variables and in each term the variables have degree $1$, i.e.,
$$p(x_1,x_2,\dots,x_m)=\sum\limits_{l=1}^n s_l\; x_{i}\; x_{j}\; x_{k},$$
where $s_l = \pm 1$, and $i, j, k \in \{1, \ldots, m\}$ and $i \ne j \ne k$ for a given $l$. A proper example would be the polynomial $$x_1 x_2 x_5-x_2x_3x_4-x_1x_3x_5$$ with $n=3$, $m=5$, $s_1=1$, $s_2=-1$, $s_3=-1$.
Let's assume there is a decomposition of $p$ by a sum of cubes of orthogonal linear forms with coefficient vectors ${\bf a}_w=(a_{w1},a_{w2},\ldots,a_{wm})$, i.e.
$$p(x_1,x_2,\dots,x_m)=\sum\limits_{w=1}^r \langle{\bf a}_w{\bf, x}\rangle^3,$$
where
$$\langle{\bf a}_u, {\bf a}_v\rangle\begin{cases}=0\text{ if } u\ne v\\\ne0\text{ if }u= v,\end{cases}$$
and due to requested orthogonality $r\le m$. Here, ${\bf x}=(x_1,x_2,\dots,x_m)$ indicates the vector of the variables of the polynomial, and $\langle\cdot,\cdot\rangle$ is the dot product.
In case such a special polynomial is decomposable, I would know if there is a method to find the vectors ${\bf a}_w$? I am only aware how to solve this if the degree of the polynomial would be $2$ but not if the degree is $3$.
Simple non-orthogonal example
For the polynomial $x_1x_2x_3$ we have $n=1$, $m=3$, $s_1=1$ and concerning this post and this paper$\color{red}{^\star}$ it can be decomposed in a sum of four cubes of linear forms, however the coefficient vectors are not mutually orthogonal.
$$x_1 x_2 x_3=\left(\frac{x_1}{2 \sqrt[3]{3}}+\frac{x_2}{2 \sqrt[3]{3}}+\frac{x_3}{2 \sqrt[3]{3}}\right)^3+\left(\frac{x_1}{2 \sqrt[3]{3}}-\frac{x_2}{2 \sqrt[3]{3}}-\frac{x_3}{2 \sqrt[3]{3}}\right)^3+\left(-\frac{x_1}{2 \sqrt[3]{3}}+\frac{x_2}{2 \sqrt[3]{3}}-\frac{x_3}{2 \sqrt[3]{3}}\right)^3+\left(-\frac{x_1}{2 \sqrt[3]{3}}-\frac{x_2}{2 \sqrt[3]{3}}+\frac{x_3}{2 \sqrt[3]{3}}\right)^3,$$
with coefficient vectors
$${\bf a}_1=\frac{1}{2\sqrt[3]{3}}\begin{pmatrix}1\\1\\1\end{pmatrix}, \quad {\bf a}_2=\frac{1}{2\sqrt[3]{3}}\begin{pmatrix}1\\-1\\-1\end{pmatrix}, \quad {\bf a}_3=\frac{1}{2\sqrt[3]{3}}\begin{pmatrix}-1\\1\\-1\end{pmatrix}, \quad {\bf a}_4=\frac{1}{2\sqrt[3] {3}}\begin{pmatrix}-1\\-1\\1\end{pmatrix}$$
I am not aware if for this polynomial exists a decomposition of orthogonal coefficients. Also I am not aware of another example where the coefficients are orthogonal.
Reference
$\color{red}{\star}$ Boris Reichstein, On expressing a cubic form as a sum of cubes of linear forms, Linear Algebra and its Applications, Volume 86, February 1987.
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