Elaborating on a comment. It's impossible to use that table as the definition. Because since the table is infinite you can't write it all down, so you have nowhere to look up the result of 3+17.
Really. definitions have to be finite. You can use a table to define the addition in $\Bbb Z_2$; that amounts to simply defining $$0+0=1+1=0, 0+1=1+0=1.$$Now if you have to add to elements of $\Bbb Z_2$ you can simply look up the result in that display.
But that doesn't work for the infinite table you'd need to add integers. No matter how large a finite part of the table you're given, there is some addition problem that it doesn't cover.
Hmm, look at it this way: If we haven't defined addition it's impossible for you to tell me exactly what "table" you're talking about! You can't write it all down for me, the best you can do is say "the table with $x+y$ in row $x$ and column $y$", and if you say that I won't have any idea what you're talking about, because addition is undefined.