Note that the problem defines a Markov chain $X = (X_t)_{t\geq0}$. Below is part of the diagram for this chain:

Here, the state numbered $k$ represents the sand pile with $k$ painted sand grains, and each arrow represents a pick. Also, the chain stops when it visits any of the states labeled $\partial$.
Suppose the chain $X$ has started at $0$, so that $\mathbf{P}(X_0 = 0) = 1$. Also, let
$$ V_k = \inf\{ t \geq 0 : X_t = k\} $$
be the first time $X$ visits $k$. Then $\{V_k < \infty\}$ represents the event where the first $k$ turns did not result in the termination of the drawing session. Now we condition on $\{V_k < \infty\}$ and consider the $(k+1)$th turn.
Case 1. Suppose $k$ is even. Then $\frac{k}{2}$ of the sand grains have been painted by Artist $\color{blue}{\mathsf{B}}$ and another $\frac{k}{2}$ by Artist $\color{red}{\mathsf{R}}$. So, Artist $\color{blue}{\mathsf{B}}$ will pick sand grains $\tau_{k+1} \sim\operatorname{Geom}(1-\frac{k}{2N})$ number of times until he/she sees one not painted by him/herself. Also, that last grain will be among those $\frac{k}{2}$ grains painted by $\color{red}{\mathsf{R}}$ with probability $\frac{k/2n}{1-k/2N}$ and an unpainted one with probability $\frac{1-k/N}{1-k/2N}$.

Case 2. Suppose $k$ is odd. Then $\color{red}{\mathsf{R}}$ will pick grains $\tau_{k+1} \sim \operatorname{Geom}(1-\frac{k-1}{2N})$ number of times. Also, the last grain picked in this turn will be among those $\frac{k+1}{2}$ grains painted by $\color{blue}{\mathsf{B}}$ with probability $\frac{(k+1)/2N}{1-(k-1)/2N}$ and an unpainted one with probability $\frac{1-k/N}{1-(k-1)/2N}$.

From this argument, we find that
$$ \mathbf{P}(V_k < \infty) = \prod_{i=0}^{k-1} \frac{1-\frac{i}{N}}{1-\frac{\lfloor i/2\rfloor}{N}}
\qquad\text{and}\qquad
\mathbf{E}[\tau_{k+1} \mid V_k < \infty] = \frac{1}{1 - \frac{\lfloor k/2\rfloor}{N}}. $$
So, if $T$ and $P$ denotes the total number of turns and picks until the session ends respectively, then
\begin{align*}
\mathbf{E}[T]
&= \sum_{k=0}^{N} \mathbf{P}(V_k < \infty)
= \sum_{k=0}^{N} \frac{\prod_{i=0}^{k-1} ( 1-\frac{i}{N} )}{\prod_{i=0}^{k-1} ( 1-\frac{\lfloor i/2\rfloor}{N} )}, \\[0.5em]
\mathbf{E}[P]
&= \sum_{k=0}^{N} \mathbf{E}[\tau_{k+1} \,;\, V_k < \infty]
= \sum_{k=0}^{N} \frac{\prod_{i=0}^{k-1} ( 1-\frac{i}{N} )}{\prod_{i=0}^{k} ( 1-\frac{\lfloor i/2\rfloor}{N} )}
\end{align*}
The upper bound is $N$ because the drawing session must terminate before or at the $(N+1)$th turn with probability $1$. (The drawing session ends only when an artist picks a sand grain that is colored by the other artist!)
Below is the table of numerical computation of $\mathbf{E}[T]$ and $\mathbf{E}[P]$:
$N$ |
$\mathbf{E}[T]$ |
$\mathbf{E}[P]$ |
$1$ |
$2$ |
$2$ |
$2$ |
$2.5$ |
$3$ |
$3$ |
$3$ |
$3.5$ |
$4$ |
$3.4166667$ |
$4$ |
$10^2$ |
$17.301962$ |
$18.213506$ |
$10^4$ |
$176.75314$ |
$177.74428$ |
$10^6$ |
$1771.9546$ |
$1772.9537$ |
Indeed, we claim:
Proposition. For any fixed $\delta \in (0, \frac{1}{2})$,
\begin{align*}
\mathbf{E}[T]
&= \sqrt{\pi N} - \frac{1}{2} + \mathcal{O}(N^{-1/2+\delta}), \tag{1} \\
\mathbf{E}[P]
&= \sqrt{\pi N} + \frac{1}{2} + \mathcal{O}(N^{-1/2+\delta}), \tag{2}
\end{align*}
as $N \to \infty$.
I believe that the proof below can be elaborated to give more terms in the asymptotic expansion. However, that will only make the proof more complicated, so I will leave it as a future project.
The proof of $\text{(1)}$ and $\text{(2)}$ are almost identical, so we will only prove $\text{(2)}$. We do so by doing some hard analysis on the formula for $\mathbf{E}[P]$. Let $\varepsilon = \delta / 7 \in (0, \frac{1}{14})$.
Case 1. For $0 \leq k \leq N^{1/2+\varepsilon}$, Taylor theorem applied to $\log(1-x)$ yields the estimate
\begin{align*}
\sum_{i=0}^{k} \log \left(1 - \frac{i}{N}\right)
&= - \sum_{i=0}^{k} \left( \frac{i}{N} + \frac{i^2}{2N^2} + \mathcal{O}(N^{-3/2+3\varepsilon}) \right) \\
&= - \frac{k^2}{2N} - \frac{k^3}{6N^2} - \frac{k}{2N} + \mathcal{O}(N^{-1+4\varepsilon}).
\end{align*}
To make use of this, we also note that
\begin{align*}
\left\lfloor\frac{k-1}{2}\right\rfloor + \left\lfloor\frac{k}{2}\right\rfloor
&= k - 1, \\
\left\lfloor\frac{k-1}{2}\right\rfloor^2 + \left\lfloor\frac{k}{2}\right\rfloor^2
&= \frac{k^2}{2} - k + \mathcal{O}(1), \\
\left\lfloor\frac{k-1}{2}\right\rfloor^3 + \left\lfloor\frac{k}{2}\right\rfloor^3
&= \frac{k^3}{4} - \frac{3k^2}{4} + \mathcal{O}(k).
\end{align*}
So it follows that
\begin{align*}
&\log \mathbf{E}[\tau_{k+1} \,;\, V_k < \infty] \\
&= \sum_{i=0}^{k-1} \log \left(1 - \frac{i}{N}\right)
- \sum_{i=0}^{\lfloor (k-1)/2 \rfloor} \log \left(1 - \frac{i}{N}\right) - \sum_{i=0}^{\lfloor k/2 \rfloor} \log \left(1 - \frac{i}{N}\right) \\
&= - \frac{k^2 - \lfloor\frac{k-1}{2}\rfloor^2 - \lfloor\frac{k}{2}\rfloor^2}{2N} - \frac{k^3 - \lfloor\frac{k-1}{2}\rfloor^3 - \lfloor\frac{k}{2}\rfloor^3}{6N^2} + \frac{k + \lfloor\frac{k-1}{2}\rfloor + \lfloor\frac{k}{2}\rfloor}{2N}
+ \mathcal{O}(N^{-1+4\varepsilon}) \\
&= - \frac{k^2}{4N} - \frac{k^3}{8N^2} + \frac{k}{2N}
+ \mathcal{O}(N^{-1+4\varepsilon}).
\end{align*}
We also note that, by the Euler–Maclaurin_formula and with $f_N(x) = \exp\left(-\frac{x^2}{4N} - \frac{x^3}{8N^2} + \frac{x}{2N}\right)$,
\begin{align*}
\sum_{1 \leq k \leq N^{1/2+\varepsilon}} f_N(k)
&= \int_{0}^{\lfloor N^{1/2+\varepsilon} \rfloor} f_N(x) \, \mathrm{d}x
+ \frac{f_N(\lfloor N^{1/2+\varepsilon} \rfloor) - f_N(0)}{2} \\
&\qquad
+ \frac{f_N'(\lfloor N^{1/2+\varepsilon} \rfloor) - f_N'(0)}{6}
+ \mathcal{O}\left( \int_{0}^{N^{1/2+\varepsilon}} |f_N''(x)| \, \mathrm{d}x \right)
\end{align*}
Through elementary but tedious computations, we can show that this reduces to
\begin{align*}
&= \int_{0}^{N^{1/2+\varepsilon}} f_N(x) \, \mathrm{d}x - \frac{1}{2} + \mathcal{O}\bigl(N^{-1/2+2\varepsilon}\bigr).
\end{align*}
Now substituting $x = \sqrt{N}t$ and expanding the resulting integrand using Taylor expansion,
\begin{align*}
&= \int_{0}^{N^{\varepsilon}} \sqrt{N} \exp\left(-\frac{t^2}{4} - \frac{t^3}{8\sqrt{N}} + \frac{t}{2\sqrt{N}}\right) \, \mathrm{d}t - \frac{1}{2} + \mathcal{O}\bigl(N^{-1/2+2\varepsilon}\bigr) \\
&= \int_{0}^{N^{\varepsilon}} e^{-t^2/4}\left(\sqrt{N} - \frac{t^3}{8} + \frac{t}{2} \right) \, \mathrm{d}t - \frac{1}{2} + \mathcal{O}\bigl(N^{-1/2+7\varepsilon}\bigr).
\end{align*}
Finally, using the estimate $\int_{x}^{\infty} t^p e^{-t^2/a} \, \mathrm{d}x \sim \frac{a}{2}x^{p-1}e^{-x^2/2}$ as $x \to \infty$ for $a > 0$, it follows that
\begin{align*}
&= \int_{0}^{\infty} e^{-t^2/4}\left(\sqrt{N} - \frac{t^3}{8} + \frac{t}{2} \right) \, \mathrm{d}t - \frac{1}{2} + \mathcal{O}\bigl(N^{-1/2+7\varepsilon}\bigr) \\
&= \left( \sqrt{\pi N} - 1 + 1 \right) - \frac{1}{2} + \mathcal{O}\bigl(N^{-1/2+7\varepsilon}\bigr)
\end{align*}
Summarizing, we have proved that
\begin{align*}
\sum_{1 \leq k \leq N^{1/2+\varepsilon}} \mathbf{E}[\tau_{k+1} \,;\, V_k < \infty]
&= e^{\mathcal{O}(N^{-1+4\varepsilon})} \left(\sqrt{\pi N} - \frac{1}{2} + \mathcal{O}\bigl(N^{-1/2+7\varepsilon}\bigr) \right) \\
&= \sqrt{\pi N} - \frac{1}{2} + \mathcal{O}\bigl(N^{-1/2+7\varepsilon}\bigr).
\end{align*}
Case 2. For $N^{1/2+\varepsilon} < k \leq N$, noting that $\log(1-x)$ is decreasing in $x$,
\begin{align*}
&\log \Biggl[ \frac{\prod_{i=0}^{k-1} ( 1-\frac{i}{N} )}{\prod_{i=0}^{k} ( 1-\frac{\lfloor i/2\rfloor}{N} )} \Biggr] \\
&\leq \int_{0}^{k-1} \log \left(1 - \frac{x}{N}\right) \, \mathrm{d}x
- \int_{0}^{\lfloor\frac{k-1}{2}\rfloor+1} \log\left(1 - \frac{x}{N}\right) \, \mathrm{d}x- \int_{0}^{\lfloor\frac{k}{2}\rfloor+1} \log\left(1 - \frac{x}{N}\right) \, \mathrm{d}x \\
&\leq \int_{0}^{k} \log \left(1 - \frac{x}{N}\right) \, \mathrm{d}x
- 2 \int_{0}^{k/2} \log\left(1 - \frac{x}{N}\right) \, \mathrm{d}x + \mathcal{O}(\log N).
\end{align*}
Using the fact that $\log\left(\frac{1-x/2}{1-x}\right) \geq \frac{x}{2}$ for $x \in [0, 1)$, we easily find that this is further bounded by
$$ - \frac{k^2}{4N} + \mathcal{O}(\log N). $$
This allows us to produce a tail bound
\begin{align*}
\sum_{N^{1/2+\varepsilon} < k \leq N} \mathbf{E}[\tau_{k+1} \,;\, V_k < \infty]
&\leq \sum_{N^{1/2+\varepsilon} < k \leq N} e^{-k^2/4N + \mathcal{O}(\log N)} \\
&\leq \left( e^{-N^{2\varepsilon}/4} + \int_{N^{1/2+\varepsilon}}^{\infty} e^{-x^2/4N} \, \mathrm{d}x \right) e^{\mathcal{O}(\log N)} \\
&\leq e^{-N^{2\varepsilon}/4 + \mathcal{O}(\log N)}.
\end{align*}
Conclusion. Combining all the estimates, we conclude that the desired asymptotic formula $\text{(2)}$ holds. $\square$
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produces $\infty$, which I think is what you intend. $\endgroup$