I was searching for relations that can be used to calculate the gradient and the hessian matrix of spherical harmonics in Cartesian coordinates easier. I am using the following definition of the spherical harmonics, which is also used in quantum mechanics:
$$ Y_\ell^m( \theta , \varphi ) = (-1)^m \sqrt{\frac{(2\ell+1)}{4\pi}\frac{(\ell-m)!}{(\ell+m)!}} \, P_{\ell}^m ( \cos{\theta} ) \, e^{i m \varphi } $$
where $P_{\ell}^m$ are the associated Legendre polynomials without the Condon–Shortley phase. Performing all the partial derivative seems to be quite tedious and also hard to generalize if performed computationally for a series of $l$ and $m$.