This is a very basic question that's been bugging me for some time.
I know "=" means equality: that is, the expression on other side of the equation is the same exact number, so doing anything to one side requires the same thing to the other side. This makes sense when we were with concrete numbers: if you have $5 = 5/1$ and multiply by 8 on both sides, you maintain the equality.
I get a bit confused (but also not really confused - this is definitely me overthinking since I've been "isolating the variable" since grade school) when we introduce a variable $x$.
Let's say we have $2x + 1 = 9$. Why can I just subtract $2x$ from both sides? It's because $x$ represents an unknown number, and so properties of numbers work right? Or like $\frac{2}{x} = 17$ why can I just multiply by $x$ on both sides? It's because $x$ is just a number and so behaves like a number - it doesn't matter that we don't know the value, right?
With two variabes, let's say we have $y + 3x = 17$. How do I know the relationship between $x,y$ is "preserved" when I subtract $3x$ from both sides to get $y = 17-3x$? Or should I not think in terms of "preserved relationships between x, y" and instead "maintaining equalities."