What are the fields with 4 elements? What are the  fields with 4 elements?
 A: HINT $\ $ Such a field would be a quadratic extension of its prime field $\rm\:\mathbb F_2\:.\:$ So it suffices to consider $\rm\:\mathbb F_2[x]/(f(x))\:$ where $\rm\:f(x)\:$ is an irreducible quadratic polynomial over $\rm\:\mathbb F_2\:.\:$ Testing irreducibility is trivial via the Parity Root Test.
A: Here is a nice general method to build examples of finite fields of any desired size (a power of a prime): 
Given a prime $p$ (in your case, $p=2$), pick a monic polynomial $q(x)\in {\mathbb F}_p[x]$ of degree $n$ and irreducible (in this case, $n=2$ and $q(x)=x^2+x+1$. By a counting argument, one can show that there is always at least one such polynomial $q$). 
We use $q$ to build a field of size $p^n$. 
Let $A$ be the companion matrix of $q$. This means that if $q(x)=a_0+a_1x+\dots+a_{n-1}x^{n-1}+x^n$, then $$A=\left(\begin{array}{ccccc}0&0&\dots&0&-a_0\\ 1&0&\dots&0&-a_1\\ 0&1&\dots&0&-a_2\\ \vdots&\vdots&\vdots&\vdots&\vdots\\ 0&0&\dots&1&-a_{n-1}\end{array}\right).$$ In our case, $$A=\left(\begin{array}{cc}0&1\\ 1&1\end{array}\right).$$
Now let $F=\{ r(A)\mid r \in{\mathbb F}_p[x]\}$.
The point is that $q(A)=a_0I+a_1A+\dots+a_{n-1}A^{n-1}+A^n=0$ and in fact, if $t(x)\in{\mathbb F}_p[x]$ and $t(A)=0$, then $q$ is a factor of $t$. Using this, one easily checks that $F$ is closed under addition and multiplication and has size $p^n$. Also, $t(A)s(A)=s(A)t(A)$ for all polynomials $t,s$. Finally, if $t$ is not a multiple of $p$ (i.e., $t(A)\in F$ is non-zero), then $\{t(A)r(A)\mid r(A)\in F\}=F$, so there is an $r(A)\in F$ such that $t(A)r(A)=1$, i.e., all elements of $F$ have inverses in $F$. So $F$ is a field. 
To see that the key point is true requires a little argument. Call ${\mathbf e}_1,\dots,{\mathbf e_n}$ the standard basis in the vector space ${\mathbb F}_p^n$. Then $A{\mathbf e}_i={\mathbf e}_{i+1}$ for $i<n$ and from this it follows easily that for no non-zero polynomial $t$ of degree less than $n$ we can have $t(A)=0$, and also that $q(A)=0$. 
[In more detail: We have $A{\mathbf e}_1={\mathbf e}_2$, $A^2{\mathbf e_1}=A{\mathbf e}_2={\mathbf e}_3$, etc, so for any polynomial $t(x)=b_0+\dots+b_{n-1}x^{n-1}$ of degree at most $n-1$ we have $t(A){\mathbf e}_1=b_0{\mathbf e}_1+b_1{\mathbf e}_2+\dots+b_{n-1}{\mathbf e}_n$, which is non-zero unless $b_0=\dots=b_{n-1}=0$ to begin with. Also, $q(A){\mathbf e}_1=0$ since $A^n{\mathbf e}_1=A{\mathbf e}_n=-a_0{\mathbf e}_1-a_1{\mathbf e}_2-\dots-a_{n-1}{\mathbf e}_n$. Since each ${\mathbf e}_i$ is $A^k{\mathbf e}_1$ for some $k$, it follows that $q(A){\mathbf e}_i=0$ for all $i$ (since $q(A)A^k=A^kq(A)$). Since the ${\mathbf e}_i$ form a basis, $q(A){\mathbf v}=0$ for all ${\mathbf v}$, so $q(A)=0$.
Also, since $q(A)=0$, note that $A^n$ is equal to a polynomial of degree at most $n-1$ applied to $A$ (namely, $-a_0I-\dots-a_{n-1}A^{n-1}$). It follows that any polynomial of degree $n$ applied to $A$ equals a polynomial in $A$ of degree at most $n-1$. But then $A^{n+1}=A^nA$ equals a polynomial in $A$ of degree at most $n$, and therefore one of degree at most $n-1$, and the same holds for any polynomial of degree $n+1$. Then $A^{n+2}=A^{n+1}A$ equals a polynomial in $A$ of degree at most $n$, etc.]
In our case, the field of 4 elements we obtained is $$\left\{0=\left(\begin{array}{cc}0&0\\ 0&0\end{array}\right),I=\left(\begin{array}{cc}1&0\\ 0&1\end{array}\right),A=\left(\begin{array}{cc}0&1\\ 1&1\end{array}\right),A+I=A^2=\left(\begin{array}{cc}1&1\\ 1&0\end{array}\right)\right\}.$$
The nice thing about this example is that the product and addition are just familiar operations (product and addition of matrices). Of course, from the general theory of finite fields, any two examples of the same size are isomorphic. However, I think this is a very concrete example that is useful to keep in mind as one advances through the theory, to see how general results apply in this setting.
A: Let $K$ be your field. 
The additive group of $K$ is an abelian group with four elements. The order of $1$ in this group divides $4$, so it is either $2$ or $4$. Were it $4$, we would have $1+1\neq0$ and $(1+1)\cdot(1+1)=0$, which is absurd in a field. It follows that $1+1=0$ in $K$. But then for all $x\in K$ we have $x+x=x\cdot(1+1)=0$, and we see that all elements have order $2$. In particular, $-1=1$.
Let $a$ be an element in $K$ which is neither $0$ nor $1$. Then $a+1$ is neither $a$ nor $1$ and if we had $a+1=0$, then $a=-1=1$ which again is a not true. We conclude that the four elements of $K$ are $0$, $1$, $a$ and $a+1$. 
You should check that this knowledge complete determines the addition in $K$.
We have to determine the multiplication now. Since $0$ and $1$ are what they are, we need only see what $a\cdot a$, $a\cdot(a+1)$ and $(a+1)\cdot(a+1)$ are:


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*We can't have $a^2=a$, for then $a(a-1)=0$ and we are supposing that $a\not\in\{0,1\}$; similarly, $a^2\neq0$. If $a^2=1$, then $(a-1)^2=a^2-1=0$ , which is also impossible. We must have thus $a^2=1+a$.

*Next, using this, $a\cdot(a+1)=a^2+a=1+a+a=1$.

*Finally, using that $1+1=0$, $(a+1)\cdot(a+1)=a^2+1=a$.
Multiplication is completely determined.
Now we have to check that with this operations we do have a field... You should have no trouble with that :)
A: Hint: Two of the elements have to be $0$ and $1$, and call the others $a$ and $b$.  We know the mulitplicative group is cyclic of order $3$ (there is only one group to choose from), so $a*a=b, b*b=a, a*b=1$.  Now you just have to fill in the addition table:  how many choices are there for $1+a$?  Then see what satisfies distributivity and you are there.
Added:  it is probably easier to think about the choices for $1+1$
