From what (little) I understand of this Wikipedia article, where $\omega$ denotes the ordinal "identified with" $\mathbb{N}$, and $\aleph_0$ is the cardinality of $\mathbb{N}$, and $\mathfrak{c}$ is the cardinality of $\mathbb{R}$:
$$\lim_{n\to\infty}n=\lim_{n\to\infty}an+b,\,\forall a,b\in\mathbb{N}$$ $$\aleph_0=a\aleph_0+b,\,\forall a,b\in\mathbb{N}$$ $$\mathfrak{c}=2^{\aleph_0}\gg\aleph_0$$ $$\omega=1+\omega\lt\omega+1\lt\omega+2\lt\dots$$
These are all infinite, or "transfinite" quantities. From algebra and calculus, I've learned to respect infinity as not a real number, and to treat it only in the sense of limits, where infinity $+,-,\times,\div$,[insert essentially any operation here] with anything else is still infinity, as otherwise paradoxes arise. I understand the bijection argument for why the cardinality of the reals is much greater than the cardinality of the naturals, and I understand the origin of the exponentiation base two, but that seems incongruous with the identities that show $\aleph_0$ remains $\aleph_0$ when operated on: e.g. $\aleph_0^2=\aleph_0\neq2^{\aleph_0}$, somehow (???) - how can we be certain that the power set has a different cardinality? - and I wonder if this is justified by the hyperreal or the surreal number system: is the $\omega$ ordinal the same $\omega$ seen in the hyperreals?
I feel like there is a formal underpinning here that I'm completely missing, that rigorously and logically treats these infinities, or these "trans"finities in different and sensible ways.
Additionally, in this article, $\omega+1>\omega=1+\omega$ is justified with by taking the union of two sets, say $S,T$, and defining this (seemingly arbitrarily?) as equivalent to finding the union of $\{0\}\times S$ and $\{1\}\times T$. I assume this is the Cartesian product, so assuming $S,T$ are copies of the naturals, T denoted by a dash, this would be the union of $\{\{0,0\},\{0,1\},\{0,2\}\dots\}$ and $\{\{1,0^{\prime}\},\{1,1^{\prime}\},\{1,2^{\prime}\}\dots\}$ which is apparently well-ordered as $\{\{0,0\},\{0,1\},\dots\{1,0^{\prime}\},\{1,1^{\prime}\}\dots\}$ and each subsequent element is strictly greater than the one before it, and so this has ordinal $\omega+\omega=\omega\cdot2>\omega$, which is apparently justified as $\{1,0^{\prime}\}$ has "no direct predecessor", implying the ordinals of the rest of $\mathbb{N}^{\prime}$ begin at $\omega$. What if we had defined $T$ as also being $\{0\}\times T$? How come the set product is valid, necessary and meaningful/non-arbitrary?