Let $F$ be a number field and $E/F$ an elliptic curve with CM by an order $\mathcal{O}$ in a quadratic imaginary field $K$. Let us suppose that $K\subseteq F$. Let $p$ be a prime that splits in $\mathcal{O}$, i.e., $p\mathcal{O}=\wp \overline{\wp}$, and let $\mathfrak{P}$ (resp. $\overline{\mathfrak{P}}$) be a prime of $F$ above $\wp$ (above $\overline{\wp}$), such that $E/F$ has good (ordinary) reduction at $\mathfrak{P}$ (at $\overline{\mathfrak{P}}$). Let $E[p]$ be the group of $p$-torsion points (over $\overline{F}$). Then, $E[p]=E[\wp]\oplus E[\overline{\wp}]$ is split as a $\text{Gal}(\overline{F}/F)$-module.
Hence, under these hypotheses, $E/F$ admits two $F$-rational isogenies of degree $p$, namely $$E \to E/E[\wp], \text{ and } E\to E/E[\overline{\wp}],$$ with kernels $E[\wp]$ and $E[\overline{\wp}]$, respectively, both of order $p$.
On the other hand, the reduction map $\bmod \mathfrak{P}$ induces an exact sequence $$0\to X_\mathfrak{P} \to E(\overline{F})[p] \to E(\mathcal{O}_F/\mathfrak{P})[p]\to 0,$$ and the kernel $X_\mathfrak{P}$ is of order $p$ and it's Galois invariant. Similarly, we have a kernel $X_{\overline{\mathfrak{P}}}$ attached to the similar sequence for reduction $\bmod \overline{\mathfrak{P}}$.
Q: Is $X_\mathfrak{P}=E[\wp]$? Or is $X_\mathfrak{P}=E[\overline{\wp}]$? And why?
I think that $X_\mathfrak{P}=E[\wp]$ because $E[\wp]\cong \wp^{-1}\mathcal{O}/\mathcal{O} \subseteq \mathbb{C}/\mathcal{O}$ and it seems to me that an element of that form should reduce to the origin... but that's not a proof. I feel that the main theorem of CM should be useful here but I am not sure how to use it to conclude what I want. Thanks!