Every vector space I've encountered which entries are made up of multiple elements of a certain set $\mathrm{S}$, e.g. a coordinate space over $\mathrm{S}$, have vector addition and scalar multiplication always defined in the same way. I mean component-wise, respecting the "semantic" (position) of elements, without additional manipulations.
I'd like to ask if this is the only right way to define those operations for these vector spaces. If so, how does this derive from the axioms?
For example if we had defined the sum of two elements of $\mathbb{R}^{n}$ in the following way: $$ \left[ \begin{array}{c} {x'}_1\\ \vdots\\ {x''}_n \end{array} \right] + \left[ \begin{array}{c} {x''}_1\\ \vdots\\ {x''}_n \end{array} \right] = \left[ \begin{array}{c} 2\left({x'}_1 + {x''}_1\right)\\ \vdots\\ 2\left({x'}_n + {x''}_n\right) \end{array} \right]$$ $\mathbb{R}^{n}$ would no longer be a vector space because the vector addition would no longer be associative.
Another example with $\mathbb{R}^{n}$. If we had defined the scalar multiplication like this: $$ \lambda \left[ \begin{array}{c} {x}_1\\ \vdots\\ {x}_n \end{array} \right] = \left[ \begin{array}{c} \lambda^2 {x}_1\\ \vdots\\ \lambda^2 {x}_n \end{array} \right]$$ we would lost what wikipedia calls the distributivity of scalar multiplication with respect to field addition, i.e. $(a + b)\mathbf{v} \ne a \mathbf{v} + b\mathbf{v}$.
It seems to me that the only correct way to define those operations is the usual way, otherwise one or more axioms wouldn't be satisfied, but I am not able to derive it from the axioms.