I am in discussion with someone online on the subject of the Dirac delta function. This other person wants to say:
$$\delta (x) = \begin{cases} 0 & : x \ne 0 \\ \infty & : x = 0 \end{cases}$$
and wants to justify it by saying:
We have that:
$$\delta (x) = \lim_{\epsilon \mathop \to 0} F_\epsilon (x)$$
where:
$$F_\epsilon (x) = \begin {cases} 0 & : x < -\epsilon \\ \dfrac 1 {2 \epsilon} & : -\epsilon \le x \le \epsilon \\ 0 & : x > \epsilon \end {cases}$$
Therefore:
$$\delta (0) = \lim_{\epsilon \mathop \to 0} F_\epsilon (0) = \dfrac 1 {2 \times 0} = \infty$$
and:
$$ \delta {x \ne 0} = \lim_{\epsilon \mathop \to 0} F_\epsilon (x \ne 0) = 0$$
Therefore:
$$\delta (x) = \begin{cases} 0 & : x \ne 0 \\ \infty & : x = 0 \end{cases}$$
This comes across as iffy to me. I don't trust $\delta (0) = \infty$ as it is not well-defined exactly what $\infty$ actually means in this context, whereas in fact $\delta$ is precisely defined by means of the limit definition as given above.
I am also seriously unsure about that $\dfrac 1 {2 \times 0}$ in the middle of the exposition, which is at best meaningless and at worst a blasphemous lie.
However, when I consult a number of mathematical works on my shelves and online, there are many of them which give that above definition quite casually, along the lines "As an obvious consequence of the definition: $\delta (0) = \infty$" or some such. Other works heavily italicise the warning that $\delta$ is not a function, and $\delta (0)$ is undefined.
What is the current mode of thought here? I am trying to craft a set of webpages which are mathematically rigorous, but coworkers on the same site are of the mind "It doesn't really matter, we all sort of know what we mean, and hey, $\delta (0) = \infty$ looks really cool!"
When questioning the matter, he is prepared to compromise and say: $\delta (0) \to \infty$ as $x \to 0$, or even:
$$\delta (x) = \begin{cases} 0 & : x \ne 0 \\ \to \infty & : x = 0 \end{cases}$$
I am insufficiently mathematically sophisticated as to be able to explain why I hate this approach, but I seriously dislike bandying the $\infty$ sign around, when (once we get past the obvious intuitive meaning we learn in elementary school) we really don't understand what it means.
EDIT:
As requested, I have actually dug up one of my texts which defines the delta function as the limit of the rectangle function as its width goes to zero, as follows. It comes from I.N. Sneddon's "Special Functions of Mathematical Physics and Chemistry", appendix.
If we consider the function $$\delta_a (x) = \begin {cases} 0 & : |x| > a \\ \dfrac 1 {2 a} & : |x| < a \end {cases}$$ then it is readily shown that $$\int_{-\infty}^\infty \delta_a(x) d x = 1.$$
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We now define $$\delta(x) = \lim_{a \to 0} \delta_a (x).$$ Letting $a$ tend to zero in equations [above] we see that $\delta(x)$ satisfies the relations $\delta(x) = 0$, if $x = 0$ $$\int_{-\infty}^\infty \delta (x) d x = 1.$$