The sample space contains $3\times 3\times 3=27$ outcomes, as you say.
There are different situations. If all players pick the same symbol, there is not a player that stands out (3 outcomes). If the three players pick three different symbols, there is also not a player that stands out (6 outcomes).
You call these $3+6=9$ outcomes draws.
The remaining situations corresponds to two of the players having the same symbol, and the last player having a different symbol. If the symbol held by the two players beats the symbol of the remaining player, you use the terminology that the two players win together (9 outcomes). However, if the symbol shared by the two players is weaker than the symbol chosen by the last player, then the last player wins alone (9 outcomes).
You count the number of outcomes where player A wins alone as 3, corresponding to probability that A wins alone on $\frac{3}{27}=\frac19$.
You also correctly count the number of outcomes where player A wins together with another player as 6, corresponding to probability $\frac{6}{27}=\frac{2}{9}$. But in 3 of these 6 outcomes, player B also wins together with another player, and in the other 3 it is player C which also wins. So this overlaps.
This why you cannot say that the (correct!) probability $\frac13$ that A wins either alone or together with one other player does not leave room for the situation where we have a draw.
If we denote a draw with three different symbols $ABC$, the situation where A and B win together as $AB$, and the situation where A wins alone with $A$, and finally a draw with a single symbol repeated threes times $O$, then we have:
$$
P(ABC) = \frac{6}{27} \\
P(AB)=P(BC)=P(CA)=\frac{3}{27} \\
P(A)=P(B)=P(C)=\frac{3}{27} \\
P(O)=\frac{3}{27}
$$
and these eight events are disjoint and make up the entire sample space, and
$$
\frac{6}{27} + \left(\frac{3}{27}+\frac{3}{27}+\frac{3}{27}\right)
+ \left(\frac{3}{27}+\frac{3}{27}+\frac{3}{27}\right) + \frac{3}{27} = 1.
$$