You have to assume that for each $j\in\{1,\dots, n\}$, the following sum exists $\sum\limits_{i=1}^{\infty}a_{ij}$. Then, for every $k\in\Bbb{N}$, we have (if you want to be really strict this follows by induction on the associativity and commutativity of addition)
\begin{align}
\sum_{i=1}^k\sum_{j=1}^na_{ij}=\sum_{j=1}^n\sum_{i=1}^ka_{ij}.
\end{align}
On the RHS, by assumption, for each $j\in\{1,\dots, n\}$, the limit $\lim\limits_{k\to\infty}\sum_{i=1}^ka_{ij}$ exists (afterall that was my first sentence). Thus, we can now use the fact that "limit of sum is sum of limits" (again strictly speaking that theorem is valid for sum of two sequences, so you would need induction for the case of $n$ summands) to get that
\begin{align}
\lim_{k\to\infty}\sum_{i=1}^k\sum_{j=1}^na_{ij} &=\sum_{j=1}^n\lim_{k\to\infty}\sum_{i=1}^ka_{ij}.
\end{align}
Or in other words,
\begin{align}
\sum_{i=1}^{\infty}\sum_{j=1}^na_{ij}&=\sum_{j=1}^n\sum_{i=1}^{\infty}a_{ij}.
\end{align}