I came across this question: Alice and Bob both try to climb a rope. Alice and Bob will get to the top with probability 1/3 and 1/4 respectively. given that exactly one person got to the top, what is the probability that the person is Alice.
The way the textbook solved it, they did $\frac13\times\frac34+\frac23\times\frac14$.
And I got that answer, but I was thinking, why can't we do inclusion-exclusion on the probability that exactly on person makes it to the top. ie, why cant we do $P[\text{Alice} ]+P[\text{Bob}]-P[\text{both}] = 1/3+1/4-1/12$ The calculation yields 2/3, not 5/12
So I'm confused -- when can we not use inclusion-exclusion?