I have recently started studying Set Theory in a self-thaught way, for that purpose I have been following Kunen's book: Set Theory: An Introduction to Independence Proofs. I'm in Chapter I section 7 and it has been defined the ordinals addition but I don't quite understand that definition. I have seen that in other books authors defines the addition using transfinite induction and it seems easier but now I want to understand Kunen's one.
$$\alpha + \beta=type(\alpha \times \{ 0 \} \cup \beta \times \{1\}, R) \:\text{where } $$ $$R=\{ \langle \langle \xi,0 \rangle, \langle \eta , 0\rangle \rangle : \xi<\eta<\alpha\} \; \cup \{\langle \langle \xi,1 \rangle, \langle \eta , 1\rangle \rangle : \xi<\eta<\beta\} \; \cup [(\alpha\times\{0\})\times(\beta\times\{1\})]. $$
With $type(A,R)$ is the unique ordinal $C$ such that $\langle A, R\rangle \cong C$ when $\langle A,R\rangle$ is a well-ordering set.
What I think I understood so far is that this definition tries to order two non-disjoint sets having that $\alpha<\beta$ and keeping the order inside $\alpha$ and $\beta$. What I can't understand is how I can get that cardinal (in for example a finite case), maybe I'm being stubborn and I should "ignore" this definition and trying to understand the more simplified one given in the later results.
Thank you for your time.