The standard interpretation of homeomorphic subsets of $\mathbb{R}^n$ is one than can be deformed into one another without tearing them.
In $\mathbb{R}^2$ much more is true: the Riemann mapping theorem gives that any two non-empty, open simply connected subsets are homeomorphic. However, this fails for higher dimensions.
A homeomorphism is a map, which is continuous with continuous inverse. Hence if we want to interpret a continuous map as a map which "does not eliminate any nearness relations, but make create some", this gives the intuition that if two spaces are homeomorphic, then two points are close to one another if and only if they are close in the other.
An illustrative example is $[0,2\pi) \subseteq \mathbb{R}^2$ and $\mathbb{S}^1 \subseteq \mathbb{R}^2$ and the map $\phi:= e^{it}: [0,2\pi) \rightarrow \mathbb{S}^1$. Then we have that $\phi$ is continuous, but does not have a continuous inverse. Note that it preserves all the "nearness relations", but it also creates one: $\phi(0)$ is near to $\phi(2\pi)$. If there were to be an inverse, then it would need to map $\phi(0)$ to $0$ and $\phi(2 \pi)$ i.e. take two points which are "near" and map them to some which are not near anymore i.e. eliminate a "nearness relation". Hence two spaces are homeomorphic if there exists a correspondence between their points s.t. all the "nearness relations" are preserved and no new ones are created.
Another approach is the following: A map is continuous if and only if preimages of open sets are open. Hence if two spaces are homeomorphic there is a one to one correspondence of open sets. How does tie into the intuition before?
In a metric space, the open balls generate the topology, hence for two spaces to be homeomorphic, it is actually sufficient to require that there is a one to one correspondence of the open balls. However, now note that two points are in the same open ball if their distance is smaller than the radius of the open ball. Hence if all open balls coincide, then all distance relationships coincide (note that that does not mean that all the distances coincide though. One can only conclude that for two points $x,y$ which are "close" we also have that $\phi(x), \phi(y)$ are "close") an illustration of this is the fact that $(0,1)$ and $\mathbb{R}$ are homeomorphic. Though, whatever homeomorphism we choose, there are some points $x,y \in (0,1)$ s.t. $\phi(x)$ and $\phi(y)$ have distance greater than $2$ despite $x$ and $y$ being distance less than $1$ apart.
Finally, the constraint that a manifold that it is patched up by such open subsets of $\mathbb{R}^n$.