Define for a fixed $A \in \mathbb{M}^{2 \times 2}(\mathbb{R})$ the mapping:
$$L_A : \mathbb{M}^{2 \times 2}(\mathbb{R}) \to \mathbb{M}^{2 \times 2}(\mathbb{R}) : X \mapsto AX-XA. $$
Define on $\mathbb{M}^{2 \times 2}(\mathbb{R})$ the dotproduct $\langle \cdot , \cdot \rangle$ as follows: $ \langle X, Y \rangle = [X]_{\xi}^t [Y]_{\xi}$.
Here is $[\cdot ]_\xi$ the coordinate map that belongs to the standard basis
$$\xi = \{ E_1 = {\begin{pmatrix} 1 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 \end{pmatrix}}, E_2={\begin{pmatrix} 0 & 0 \\ 1 & 0 \end{pmatrix}}, E_3={\begin{pmatrix} 0 & 1 \\ 0 & 0 \end{pmatrix}}, E_4={\begin{pmatrix} 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 1 \end{pmatrix}} \}$$ of $\mathbb{M}^{2 \times 2}(\mathbb{R})$.
Write $M_A$ for the matrix such that for all $X \in \mathbb{M}^{2 \times 2}(\mathbb{R})$ it satisfies $[L_A (X)]_\xi=M_A [X]_\xi$.
Prove that $L_A$ is symmetric if and only if $A$ is symmetric.
In a previous exercise I had to determine all the matrices $M_{E_1}, M_{E_2}, M_{E_3}, M_{E_4}$. And this is the result:
$M_{E_1} = {\begin{pmatrix} 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & -1 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 1 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 \end{pmatrix}},~M_{E_2}={\begin{pmatrix} 0 & 0 & -1 & 0 \\ 1 & 0 & 0 & -1 \\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 1 & 0 \end{pmatrix}}, ~M_{E_3}={\begin{pmatrix} 0 & 1 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 \\ -1 & -1 & 0 & 1 \\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 \end{pmatrix}}, \\M_{E_4}={\begin{pmatrix} 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 1 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & -1 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 0 & 0 \end{pmatrix}}$
How am I to use this to prove the given problem? I already showed that $L_A$ is symmetric if and only if $M_A$ is symmetric, meaning $\langle L_A(X), Y \rangle = \langle X, L_A(Y) \rangle$ if and only if $M_A = M_A^t$.
I am at a loss. Thanks in advance.