Let $z=(z_1,z_2,\dots,z_n)$ and $w=(w_1,w_2,\dots,w_n)$ in $\mathbb{C}^n$. Define the inner product of $z$ and $w$ as $$\langle z,w \rangle=z_1\overline{w_1}+z_2\overline{w_2}+\dots+z_n\overline{w_n},$$ where $\overline{w_j}$ is complex conjugate of $w_j$, $j=1,2,\dots,n$.
Since $\langle z,w \rangle \neq \langle w,z \rangle$, how can we say that $z$ and $w$ are orthogonal?