You can start with a definition of a dynamical system. Dynamical system is a triple $
\{X,T,\phi^t\}$, where $X$ is called the state space, $T$ is time (an ordered set), and $\phi^t$ is an evolutionary operator that for all allowed $t\in T$ maps $X$ to $X$ and satisfies $\phi^0=Id$ and $\phi^{t+\tau}=\phi^t\circ \phi^\tau$. Do not put too much thought on what I just have defined. If you know what a set and a function are, you should be fine.
Now you start playing with different examples. For instance, let's take $X=\mathbb R$, $T=\{0,1,2,\ldots\}$, and $\phi^1(x)=5x$. Clearly two properties of the evolutionary operator satisfied.
Not always one knows the evolutionary operator explicitly. Sometimes what is known is only the derivative
$$
\frac{d}{dt}\phi^t(x)|_{t=0}=f(x).
$$
Then it can be shown that $\phi^t$ solves differential equation $\dot x=f(x)$. It is also true in other direction: if one has ODE $\dot x=f(x)$ then its solution is an example of a dynamical system $\{\mathbb R,\mathbb R,\phi^t\}$ (this is a theorem, and not an easy one, so just accept it), even if we do not know exactly the formula for $\phi^t$. Note that now my $T=\mathbb R$. As an example let me take $\dot x=5x$.
Now go back to the general definition of dynamical system and define an orbit through point $x_0$ as the set $\{x\in X\mid x=\phi^t(x_0),t\in T\}$. What is the simplest orbit? Probably the one that consists of just one point $\hat x$. Let me call such orbit (quite naturally) fixed point. How to find it in my first example? Clearly this is such $x$ that satisfies $5x=x$, hence $x=0$
How to find fixed points of my second example? If you reading Strogatz' book, you should be able to prove
Lemma Consider $\dot x=f(x)$ and corresponding dynamical system. Then $\hat x$ is a fixed point if and only if $\dot x=0=f(x)$.
To make the matter even a little more confusing, one can readily replace $X=\mathbb R$ with something more complicated, like the set of all differential functions. We still will have the definition of a fixed point as the orbit consisting of just one point. In this case, however, this point can be a function and can be a solution, say, of a differential equation itself!