Considered as a two-person game, this is incompletely specified, both because there is some residual ambiguity in the specification of your own objective (do you consider a tie to be just as bad as a loss, for instance, or not so bad as a loss but not as good as a win), and no specification whatever of your opponent's objective.
Even if you ignore your opponent's objective entirely, the fact remains that your probability of winning still depends partially on his or her choice of number, so nothing you do can maximise your probability of winning tout court, because you have no control over one of the inputs on which that probability depends. There are, however, a couple assumptions you might make to resolve this difficulty:
- Assume your opponent's goal is the same as yours—i.e. to maximise his or her probability of winning. This turns the problem into a two-person game, for which you can try to find a Nash equilibrium. The game is not constant-sum however, because if both you and your opponent choose the same number, the probabilities of each of you winning sum to zero instead of $1$.
- Ignore your opponent's objective completely, and try instead to maximise what your minimum probability would be if your opponent's choice is the worst possible for whatever strategy you adopt. In this case, you must use a mixed strategy if the worst case is to be one where you have a positive probability of winning).
As it happens, the solution in both cases turns out to be the same: choose $13$ with probability $\ \frac{99}{190}\ $ and $\ 14\ $ with probability $\ \frac{91}{190}\ $ (and keep your choice concealed from your opponent until after he or she has irrevocably chosen his or hers—assuming this is possible). This is your unique Nash equilibrium strategy under the first assumption, and it guarantees that you win with probability $\ \frac{9009}{36100}\approx0.25\ $, which is also the maximum winning probability you can be assured of, because if your opponent chooses the same strategy, then your probability of winning is at most $\ \frac{9009}{36100}\ $, no matter what you do.
You could also turn the game into a $2$-person constant sum game by assuming that both you and your opponent consider a tie to be half as valuable as a win, while still regarding a loss as worthless. In that case your optimal strategy is to choose $14$, which guarantees you an outcome at least as good as a tie. If your opponent chooses any other strategy your expected payoff will be greater than $\ \frac{1}{2}\ $—that is,$$\ \frac{1}{2}\text{Prob}(\text{tie})+\text{Prob}(\text{you win})>\frac{1}{2}\ .$$