One common definition of arclength is to just define it as a supremum of the set of lengths obtained by approximating your curve as a union of line segments (I was asked in the comments for a more precise definition; see https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arc_length#Definition_for_a_smooth_curve). The natural analogue of this to the surface area of a surface in 3 space fails quite spectacularly thanks to constructions such as the Schwarz lantern, which shows we can approximate a cylinder by polyhedra whose surface areas approach infinity!
Is there an intuitive reason that polygonal approximation works so well for curves but fails so spectacularly for surfaces?