How to minimize this energy by formulating it as a Poisson problem?

I have the energy function that I would like to minimize as: $$\sum_{\{i, j\}}((h_i - h_j) - q_{ij})^2$$ This is applied over a 2D grid, where $$q_{ij}$$ is the relative height between two cells $$i$$ $$j$$, and $$h_i$$ is the absolute height of the cell that I am trying to find. Note that $$q_{ij}$$ is only non-zero for the 4-neighborhood of each cell i.e. directly adjacent ones. I was given a hint that this can be formulated as a Poisson problem but I've not been able to get there.

This is my current attempt:

We can expand this given energy to get: $$\sum_{\{i, j\}} (h_i^2 -2h_i h_j -2h_i q_{ij} + h_j^2 +2h_j q_{ij} + q_{ij}^2)$$

Which is then equivalent to the individual sums: $$\sum_{\{i, j\}}(h_i^2) -2\sum_{\{i, j\}}(h_i h_j) -2\sum_{\{i, j\}}(h_i q_{ij}) + \sum_{\{i, j\}}(h_j^2) +2\sum_{\{i, j\}}(h_j q_{ij}) + \sum_{\{i, j\}}(q_{ij}^2)$$

I then define the column vector $$H$$ as the vector with all values of $$h_i$$ stacked on top of each other. I also define $$M$$ as the adjacency matrix between cells, which in this case would be a grid yielding the 4-neighborhood. Finally I define $$Q$$ as the matrix with the same sparsity pattern as $$M$$, but with values representing the relative height between $$i$$ and $$j$$.

With $$H$$, $$M$$ and $$Q$$ I can write these sums in matrix form:

$$4H^TH -2H^T(MH) -2(QH)^TO + (MH)^T(MH) + 2(QMH)^TO + O^TQ^2O$$ Where $$O$$ is a vector of ones. My reasoning for the $$1^{st}$$ coefficient is that each $$h_i$$ will appear on the left of the sum 4 times.

From this point I can group similar terms:

$$H^T(4I -2M + M^2)H + H^T(2QM -2Q)O + O^TQ^2O$$

Which I write as: $$H^TAH + H^T(2QM -2Q)O + O^TQ^2O$$

I then use the reasoning from this question (which I admit to not fully understanding), to get my final system:

$$AH = (QM - Q)O,\quad A = 4I -2M + M^2$$

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Any hints or advice would be great, thank you.

My mistake was in the conversion to vectors and matrices. $$(MH)^T(MH)$$ should instead be: $$4H^TH$$
The reason being, that each cell shall be present as a neighbor to 4 other cells. This gives us: $$8H^TH -2H^T(MH) -2(QH)^TO + 2(QMH)^TO + O^TQ^2O$$ And when we work through with this equation, a standard Poisson problem does emerge. I also had a mistake on the final line, $$QM - Q$$ should instead be $$Q - QM$$. $$AH = \frac{1}{2}(Q - QM)O, \quad A = 4I - M$$