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Let $\mathcal{H}$ be a Hilbert space, and suppose that $T\in\text{Hom}(\mathcal{H},\mathcal{H})$. Suppose that there exists an operator $\tilde{T}:\mathcal{H}\rightarrow\mathcal{H}$ such that, \begin{align} \langle Tx,y\rangle =\langle x,\tilde{T}y\rangle, \end{align} $\forall x,y\in\mathcal{H}$. Show that $T$ is continuous.
My current solution is as follows:
Assume for all $\delta>0$ there exists $n>N\in\mathbb{N}$ such that, \begin{align} \|x_{n}-x\|<\delta. \end{align} Then, \begin{align} \langle Tx_{n}-Tx,Tx_{n}-Tx\rangle &= \|Tx_{n}-Tx\|^{2}\\ &\leq\|Tx_{n}-Tx\|=\|T(x_{n}-x)\|\\ &\leq\|T\|\|x_{n}-x\|\rightarrow 0\text{ as }n\rightarrow\infty. \end{align}
What am I doing wrong? I notice I do not use the existence of $\tilde{T}$.
Second Attempt:
Assume $\langle x_{n},x\rangle \rightarrow \langle x,x\rangle$ as $n\rightarrow\infty$. Then, given $\langle Tx,y\rangle = \langle x,\tilde{T}y\rangle$, \begin{align} \langle Tx_{n},y\rangle &= \langle x_{n},\tilde{T}y\rangle\rightarrow_{n\rightarrow\infty}\langle x,\tilde{T}y\rangle=\langle Tx,y\rangle. \end{align} Therefore, $Tx_{n}\rightarrow Tx$ as $n\rightarrow\infty$.
Third Attempt:
Assume $\|x_{n}-x\|\rightarrow 0$ as $n\rightarrow\infty$. Then, \begin{align} \langle Tx_{n}-Tx,Tx_{n}-Tx\rangle=\langle x_{n}-x,x_{n}-x\rangle=\|x_{n}-x\|^{2}. \end{align}
By assumption $\|x_{n}-x\|^{2}\rightarrow 0$ as $n\rightarrow\infty$. Hence, \begin{align} \langle Tx_{n}-Tx,Tx_{n}-Tx\rangle = \|Tx_{n}-Tx\|^{2}\rightarrow 0\text{ as }n\rightarrow\infty. \end{align} Therefore, $T$ is continuous.
Fourth Attempt
Assume $x_{n}\rightarrow x$ as $n\rightarrow\infty$. Then, given $\langle Tx,y\rangle = \langle x,\tilde{T}y\rangle$, \begin{align} \langle Tx_{n},y\rangle =\langle x_{n},\tilde{T}y\rangle\rightarrow_{n\rightarrow\infty}\langle x,\tilde{T}y\rangle =\langle Tx,y\rangle. \end{align} Since $Tx_{n}\rightarrow Tx$ weakly, we know $Tx:=\lim_{n\rightarrow\infty}Tx_{n}$ exists which implies that $T\in\mathcal{L}(\mathcal{H},\mathcal{H})$. Hence $\|T\|<\infty$. So, \begin{align} \langle Tx_{n}-Tx,Tx_{n}-Tx\rangle &= \|Tx_{n}-Tx\|^{2}\\ &\leq\|Tx_{n}-Tx\|=\|T(x_{n}-x)\|\\ &\leq\|T\|\|x_{n}-x\|\rightarrow 0\text{ as }n\rightarrow\infty. \end{align} Therefore $T$ is continuous.
Fifth Attempt
Assume $x_{n}\rightarrow x$ as $n\rightarrow\infty$. Then, given $\langle Tx,y\rangle = \langle x,\tilde{T}y\rangle$, \begin{align} \langle Tx_{n},y\rangle =\langle x_{n},\tilde{T}y\rangle\rightarrow_{n\rightarrow\infty}\langle x,\tilde{T}y\rangle =\langle Tx,y\rangle. \end{align} Hence $Tx_{n}\rightarrow Tx$ weakly. Define $f_{x}(y):=\langle Tx,y\rangle$, then $f_{x}:\mathcal{H}\rightarrow\mathbb{R}$ is a linear operator.
Now, \begin{align} f_{x_{n}}(y)=\langle Tx_{n},y\rangle\rightarrow_{n\rightarrow\infty}\langle Tx,y\rangle=f_{x}(y). \end{align} Further, \begin{align} |f_{x_{n}}(y)|=|\langle Tx_{n},y\rangle|\leq\|Tx_{n}\|\|y\|\implies\|f_{x_{n}}\|\leq\|Tx_{n}\|. \end{align} Also, \begin{align} \|f_{x_{n}}\|\geq\frac{|f_{x_{n}}(Tx_{n})|}{\|Tx_{n}\|}=\|Tx_{n}\|. \end{align} Hence, $\|f_{x_{n}}\|=\|Tx_{n}\|$. We now show $\|f_{x_{n}}\|_{\infty}<\infty$, \begin{align} |f_{x_{n}}(Tx)|=|\langle Tx_{n},Tx\rangle|\rightarrow_{n\rightarrow\infty}|\langle Tx,Tx\rangle|=\|Tx\|^{2}, \end{align} hence, $\sup_{n\in\mathbb{N}}|f_{x_{n}}(Tx_{n})|<\infty$ and so by the UBP $\sup_{n\in\mathbb{N}}\|f_{x_{n}}\|<\infty$. This implies $\|Tx_{n}\|<\infty$ for all $x_{n}$ and so $\|T\|<\infty$.
Hence, \begin{align} \langle Tx_{n}-Tx,Tx_{n}-Tx\rangle &= \|Tx_{n}-Tx\|^{2}\\ &\leq\|Tx_{n}-Tx\|=\|T(x_{n}-x)\|\\ &\leq\|T\|\|x_{n}-x\|\rightarrow 0\text{ as }n\rightarrow\infty. \end{align} Therefore $T$ is continuous.