Suppose that $p$ is an odd prime. Does every Sylow $p$-subgroup of a finite group contain an element that is not contained in any other Sylow $p$-subgroup? Or does there exist a group $G$ with Sylow $p$-subgroups $P, P_1, \ldots, P_s$ such that $P$ is contained in $P_1 \cup \ldots \cup P_s$?
One immediate observation here is that if a Sylow $p$-subgroup contains an element that is not contained in any other Sylow $p$-subgroup, then the same is true for every other Sylow $p$-subgroup since they are conjugate. Hence we only need to check the statement for one Sylow $p$-subgroup.
I've tried different approaches to this problem but I don't think I have found out anything useful so far. Some special cases where the statement is true is when there are $\leq p + 1$ Sylow $p$-subgroups, or when the Sylow $p$-subgroups are cyclic.
The reason I am assuming that $p$ is odd because there are counterexamples when $p = 2$. One example is given by $\operatorname{PSL}(2,11)$, where every element of a Sylow $2$-subgroup is contained in at least two Sylow $2$-subgroups. Plenty of more examples can be found with GAP, the smallest example seems to be of order $108$. I have checked all groups of order $\leq 1000$ except for those of orders $576$ and $864$. All the examples I've found so far are given by $2$-sylow subgroups.