Multiply by the conjugate of the numerator over itself and you find the limit is equal to $$\frac12\lim_{(x,y) \to (0,0)} \frac{x^2+y^2}{\arcsin{\left(x^2+y^2+x \right) }-\arcsin{x}}$$
[Note that here we go ahead and evaluate $\lim_{(x,y) \to (0,0)} \frac{1}{\sqrt{1+x^2+y^2}+1}=\frac{1}{2}$ rather than keeping such a cumbersome expression along for the ride unnecessarily. This is the main hint I would give but I can't find a way to express that in the form of a hint without just doing it.]
Convert to polar and you have: $$\frac12\lim_{r\to0^+} \frac{r^2}{\arcsin{\left(r^2+r\cos(\theta) \right) }-\arcsin(r\cos(\theta))}$$
There is an identity for summing two arcsin expressions when both arguments are small, as they would be here when taking a limit as $r\to0^+$.
$$\frac12\lim_{r\to0^+} \frac{r^2}{\arcsin\left(\left(r^2+r\cos\theta\right)\sqrt{1-r^2\cos^2\theta} -r\cos(\theta)\sqrt{1-\left(r^2+r\cos\theta\right)^2}\right)}$$
Multiply by $\frac{\arcsin(\text{expression})}{\text{expression}}$ which has limit $1$:
$$\frac12\lim_{r\to0^+} \frac{r^2}{\left(r^2+r\cos\theta\right)\sqrt{1-r^2\cos^2\theta} -r\cos(\theta)\sqrt{1-\left(r^2+r\cos\theta\right)^2}}$$
Rearrange the $r$'s:
$$\frac12\lim_{r\to0^+} \frac{r}{\left(r+\cos\theta\right)\sqrt{1-r^2\cos^2\theta} -\cos(\theta)\sqrt{1-\left(r^2+r\cos\theta\right)^2}}$$
Use a conjugate again:
$$\cos\theta\lim_{r\to0^+} \frac{r}{\left(r+\cos\theta\right)^2\left(1-r^2\cos^2\theta\right) -\cos^2(\theta)\left(1-\left(r^2+r\cos\theta\right)^2\right)}$$
Expand and condense:
$$\cos\theta\lim_{r\to0^+} \frac{r}{r^2+2r\cos\theta}$$
And this works out to $\frac12$, not $0$.