It has been explained here many times that $n$ indistinguishable sweets can be distributed to $r$ children in ${n+r-1\choose r-1}$ ways. Given two such allocations (multisets) $x=(x_i)_{1\leq i\leq r}$ and $y=(y_i)_{1\leq i\leq r}$ we can look at their discrepancy $$\sum_{i=1}^r|x_i-y_i|=:2d\geq0$$ (an even number). The question is: How many pairs $(x,y)$ of multisets of cardinality $n$ over the set $[r]$ are there, having given discrepancy $2d>0$?
This question (in a somewhat different disguise) has been asked here a few days ago, but unfortunately got closed before anybody had time to come up with a hint, let alone a full solution. I'm convinced this is a novel and challenging problem, off the standard stars and bars route. Therefore I dare to post it again, this time with the added context of sweets $\ldots$