This is related to the post, but an enriched version of the problem. Now we require the richer form of $P_1,P_2,P_3,P_4,P_5,P_6$.
Let $$G=U(3),$$ be the unitary group. Here we consider $G$ in terms of the fundamental representation of U(3). Namely, all of $g \in G$ can be written as a rank-3 (3 by 3) matrices.
Can we find some subgroup of Lie group, $$k \in K \subset G= U(3) $$ such that
$$ k^T \{P_1, P_2, P_3,P_4,P_5,P_6, -P_1, - P_2, - P_3,-P_4,-P_5,-P_6 \} k =\{P_1, P_2, P_3,P_4,P_5,P_6, -P_1, - P_2, - P_3,-P_4,-P_5,-P_6\}. $$ This means that set $\{P_1, P_2, P_3,P_4,P_5,P_6, -P_1, - P_2, - P_3,-P_4,-P_5,-P_6\}$ is invariant under the transformation by $k$. Here $k^T$ is the transpose of $k$. What is the full subset (or subgroup) of $K$?
Here we define: $$ P_1 = \left( \begin{array}{ccc} 0 & 1 & 0 \\ 1 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 0 \\ \end{array} \right),\;\;\;\; P_2 = \left( \begin{array}{ccc} 0 & 0 & 1 \\ 0 & 0 & 0 \\ 1 & 0 & 0 \\ \end{array} \right),\;\;\;\; P_3 = \left( \begin{array}{ccc} 0 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 1 \\ 0 & 1 & 0 \\ \end{array} \right).$$ $$ P_4 =\sqrt{2} \left( \begin{array}{ccc} 1 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 0 \\ \end{array} \right),\;\;\;\; P_5 = \sqrt{2}\left( \begin{array}{ccc} 0 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 1 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 0 \\ \end{array} \right),\;\;\;\; P_6 = \sqrt{2}\left( \begin{array}{ccc} 0 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 1 \\ \end{array} \right).$$
This means that $k^T P_a k= \pm P_b$ which may transform $a$ to a different value $b$, where $a,b \in \{1,2,3,4,5,6 \}$. But overall the full set $ \{P_1, P_2, P_3,P_4,P_5,P_6, -P_1, - P_2, - P_3,-P_4,-P_5,-P_6\}$ is invariant under the transformation by $k$.
There must be a trivial element $k=$ the rank-3 identity matrix. But what else can it allow?
How could we determine the complete $K$?