Here is a formula of the $n$-th derivative of $\frac{f}{g}$ in terms of derivatives of $f$ and $g$ which might be helpful.
Let $D_x$ represent differentiation with respect to $x$. Hence $D^n_x f(x)$ is the $n$-th derivative of $f$ with respect to $x$. The following holds true for $n$ times differentiable functions $f$ and $g$
\begin{align*}
D_x^n\left(\frac{f}{g}\right)=\sum_{k=0}^n\sum_{j=0}^{k} (-1)^j\binom{n}{k}\binom{k+1}{j+1}\frac{1}{g^{j+1}}
D_x^{n-k}\left(f\right) D_x^{k}\left( g^j\right)\tag{1}
\end{align*}
This formula is based upon the Hoppe Form of Generalized Chain Rule and a proof for it is given in this MSE post.
In the current situation we have $f(x)=x$ and $g(x)=\ln(x)+1$ and we obtain from (1) if we change the order of summation of the outer sum by replacing $k$ with $n-k$:
\begin{align*}
\color{blue}{D_x^n\left(\frac{x}{\ln x+1}\right)}
&=\sum_{k=0}^n\sum_{j=0}^{n-k}(-1)^j\binom{n}{k}\binom{n-k+1}{j+1}
\frac{1}{(\ln x + 1)^{j+1}}D_x^k(x)D_x^{n-k}\left((\ln x + 1)^j\right)\\
&=\color{blue}{\sum_{j=0}^{n}(-1)^j\binom{n+1}{j+1}
\frac{x}{(\ln x+1)^{j+1}}D_x^{n}\left((\ln x+1)^j\right)}\\
&\qquad\color{blue}{+\sum_{j=0}^{n-1}(-1)^jn\binom{n+1}{j+1}
\frac{1}{(\ln x+1)^{j+1}}D_x^{n-1}\left((\ln x+1)^j\right)}\\
\end{align*}
Since $D_x^k(x)=0$ if $k>1$ it is sufficient to consider the first two terms $k=0,1$ of the outer sum.
Let's look at a small example in order to see the formula in action
Example: $D^1_x\left(\frac{x}{\ln x + 1}\right)$
\begin{align*}
\color{blue}{D_x^1\left(\frac{x}{\ln x +1}\right)}
&=\sum_{j=0}^1(-1)^j\binom{2}{j+1}\frac{x}{(\ln x+1)^{j+1}}D_x^1\left((\ln x+1)^j\right)\\
&\qquad +\sum_{j=0}^0(-1)^j\binom{1}{j+1}\frac{1}{(\ln x+1)^{j+1}}D_x^0\left((\ln x+1)^j\right)\\
&=(-1)^0\binom{2}{1}\frac{x}{\ln x+1}D_x(1)+(-1)^1\binom{2}{2}\frac{x}{(\ln x+1)^2}D_x(\ln x + 1)\\
&\qquad +(-1)^0\binom{1}{1}\frac{1}{\ln x+1}D_x^0(1)\\
&=0-\frac{x}{(\ln x+1)^2}\cdot \frac{1}{x}+\frac{1}{\ln x+1}\\
&\color{blue}{=\frac{\ln x}{(\ln x+1)^2}}
\end{align*}
in accordance with OPs result.