Please offer a solution to the following problem. It was offered in class by my professor as an additional exercise to try on one's own.
Let $V$ be the inner product space, and assume that $\alpha \in End(V)$. Suppose that $A$ is the representation matrix of $\alpha$ with respect to an orthonormal basis {$v_1,...,v_n$}.
(i) Prove that $\alpha$ is self-adjoint if and only if $A = A^*$.
(ii) Prove that if $B$ is the representation matrix of $\alpha$ with respect to another orthonormal basis {$w_1,...,w_n$}, then $B=U^*AU$ for some matrix $U$ such that $U^*U=I$.
Thank you for your assistance.