So it is $F_{x}+F_{y}=0$?
No, the gradient of a function $f:ℝ^n→ℝ$ is defined as:
$$∇f(x_1,…,x_n)=\pmatrix{\frac{∂}{∂_{x_1}}f \\\vdots \\ \frac{∂}{∂_{x_n}}f}.$$
With $\frac{∂}{∂_{x_i}}$ denoting the partial derivative to $x_i$.
So in your case, for $f:ℝ^2→ℝ$, it is
$$∇f(x,y) = \pmatrix{\frac{∂}{∂_x}f(x,y) \\ \frac{∂}{∂_y}f(x,y)}.$$
So now you just need to calculate the derivatives.
\begin{align*}
\frac{∂}{∂_x}f(x,y) &= \frac{∂}{∂_x}[2x^3+xy^2+5x^2+y^2] \\
&= 6x^2+y^2+10x \\ \\
\frac{∂}{∂_y}f(x,y) &= 2xy+2y
\end{align*}
edit: Since you want to calculate maxima and minima you are correct, that the necessary condition (just like in 1D) is:
$$∇f=0.$$
And that is short for
$$\frac{∂}{∂_{x_i}} f = 0, \quad i=1,…,n$$
since the gradient is simply a vector.
But you also have to check that the second derivative is "$>0$" or "$<0$", just like in 1D. And now that we are talking about multivariate functions, the second derivative is a matrix, the so-called Hessian, and "$\lessgtr 0$" is called definiteness.
Wikipedia illustrates that nice for the special 2D case and for arbitrary dimension.