The statement you are trying to prove is not true.
Note that if $A$ is Dedekind-infinite, then so is any set containing $A$. So weird Dedekind-infinite sets can be built by taking some nice Dedekind-infinite set - say, $\mathbb{N}$ - and looking at the union of that with some really weird set $A$. For example, we could take $A$ to be amorphous - that is, infinite but not partitionable into disjoint infinite sets! (Such sets can exist in ZF, but this is not easy to prove.)
Now look at $X=\mathbb{N}\cup A$ for $A$ amorphous. EDIT: As bof points out below, we actually don't need $A$ to be amorphous, it's enough for $A$ to be any Dedekind-finite infinite set; I just like amorphous sets. I claim that $X$ can't be split into $X$-many sets of size $X$. In fact, I claim:
There are no disjoint $Y, Z\subseteq X$ with $Y\sim Z\sim X$.
That is, we can't even find two sets that we want!
The culprit is $A$, via the following fact: $$\mbox{There is no injection from any Dedekind-finite infinite set into any well-ordered set}.$$ This is a good exercise (hint: think about preimages), and in this context means that if $Y\subseteq X$ with $f: X\rightarrow Y$ a bijection, then $f(a)\in Y\cap A$ for all but finitely many $a\in A$; that is, when we "shrink" $X$ down, "most" of the $A$-part of $X$ stays in the $A$-part.
So suppose $Y, Z$ were disjoint subsets of $X$ of size the same as $X$. Fix bijections $f, g: X\rightarrow Y, Z$, and let
Clearly $U$ and $V$ are disjoint, and are infinite by the above observation; but this contradicts the fact that $A$ is amorphous.