Hermitian matrices in an arbitrary inner product I was wondering if anyone can give me any hints for how to prove the following proposition: 
Proposition: Let $V = F^n$ and let $A\in M_{n\times n}(F)$. Prove that $\langle A^* x,y \rangle = \langle x, A y \rangle$. 
The problem that I am having is how to prove this for an arbitry inner product on $F^n$, an arbitrary field. Some textbooks take this as an axiom or the definition of the adjoint of $A$, but the book that I got this from does not (Linear Algebra by Friedberg). 
 A: This is true only for $V$ with the standard inner product. 
Counter-example:
Assume $V=\mathbb{R}^2$ and we define the inner product in the following way:
$$\langle x | y\rangle = x^T \begin{pmatrix}1 & \frac{\sqrt{3}}{2}\\\frac{\sqrt{3}}{2} & 1 \end{pmatrix} y$$
Lets take for simplicity $x = \begin{pmatrix} 1\\0 \end{pmatrix} , y =  \begin{pmatrix} 0\\1 \end{pmatrix} $
Lets take $A$ to be $\begin{pmatrix}1 & 2\\3 & 4 \end{pmatrix} $
Now some calculations:
$$\langle x | Ay \rangle = x^T\begin{pmatrix}1 & \frac{\sqrt{3}}{2}\\\frac{\sqrt{3}}{2} & 1 \end{pmatrix} \begin{pmatrix}1 & 2\\3 & 4 \end{pmatrix} y = x^T\begin{pmatrix}1+\frac{3\sqrt{3}}{2} & 2(1+\sqrt{3})\\\frac{1}{2}(6+\sqrt{3}) & 4+\sqrt{3} \end{pmatrix}  y = 2(1+\sqrt{3}) $$
$$\langle A^*x | y \rangle = \left (\begin{pmatrix}1 & 3\\2 & 4 \end{pmatrix} 
 x\right )^T\begin{pmatrix}1 & \frac{\sqrt{3}}{2}\\\frac{\sqrt{3}}{2} & 1 \end{pmatrix} y = \begin{pmatrix} 1& 2 \end{pmatrix}\begin{pmatrix}1 & \frac{\sqrt{3}}{2}\\\frac{\sqrt{3}}{2} & 1 \end{pmatrix} \begin{pmatrix} 0\\ 1 \end{pmatrix} = 2 + \frac{\sqrt{3}}{2} $$
$$ \langle x | Ay \rangle \neq \langle A^*x | y \rangle  $$
A: As pointed out in the comments and the answer written above, following answer may give you a little more detail. I have taken the real inner product space.
Consider the inner product space $V = \mathbb{R}^n$ with the standard inner product defined as follows:
Let $x = (x_1, x_2, x_3, \ldots x_n)$, and $y =  (y_1, y_2, y_3, \ldots y_n)$ are any two arbitrary vectors in $ \mathbb{R}^n$. We define the standard inner product in $\mathbb{R}^n $, denoted by $\langle x,  y\rangle$ by
$\langle x,  y\rangle = x_1 y_1 + x_2 y_2 + \ldots + x_n y_n$.
How to define the dot product between $x$ and $y$ if we consider them as a column vectors of $\mathbb{R}^n $ having size $n\times 1$?. It can be defined as
$x.y  = x^t. y = x_1 y_1 + x_2 y_2 + \ldots + x_n y_n$, which is same as the standard inner product definition in  $\mathbb{R}^n $. Thus we can write
$\langle x,  y\rangle = x.y = x^t. y$
Coming to your question
LHS = $\langle A^t x,y \rangle = (A^t x)^t y = x^t Ay$
RHS = $\langle x, A y \rangle = x^t A y$
LHS = RHS
