Thinking about monoids as single-object categories, I got to wondering about what distinguishes the arrows of a single-object category, especially given that the object might have no internal structure (e.g., it might not be a set with elements).
For instance, the trivial monoid consisting of just the identity element under some binary operation would be a category $\mathbf{M_0}$ with object $M$ and the identity arrow $\mathit{id}_M : M \rightarrow M$ as its sole arrow. But since the natural numbers under addition form a commutative monoid $(\mathbb{N}, +)$ it should be possible to construe that monoid as a single-object category $\mathbf{M}_\mathbb{N}$ with object $M$. Suppose that the single-object is the same in both categories, so that we get from $\mathbf{M_0}$ to $\mathbf{M}_\mathbb{N}$ simply by adding a countable infinity of arrows $1, 2, \dotsc : M \rightarrow M$, identifying $0$ with the identity arrow, requiring composition to be commutative, and ensuring additional things like that $1 \circ 1 = 2$ so that composition behaves like addition.
But assuming that $M$ has no "elements" or any other such internal structure, what differentiates the countable infinity of arrows that make up $\mathbf{M}_\mathbb{N}$? I've read, like in the comments on the linked question, that arrows can be thought of as ordered triples so that $1$ would be $(1, M, M)$ and $2$ would be $(2, M, M)$. Does the "name" (e.g., "1") of an arrow play a distinctive role in distinguishing it from other arrows with the same source and target (a single object, in this case)?