I find if I'm not sure about something, it's helpful to try and build it from first principles, looking up stuff if I get stuck.
For summation by parts, I know it's something like integration by parts, but with derivatives replaced by differences and integrals by sums, so it'll look something like
$$ \sum_a^b f_k (g_k-g_{k-1}) = \text{{boundary terms}} - \sum_a^b g_k (f_k-f_{k-1}), $$
up to getting the indices wrong. I also remember that $\Delta f_k = f_k-f_{k-1} $ satisfies something like the product rule, which is why this works in the first place: we have
$$ \Delta f_k g_k = f_k g_k - f_{k-1} g_{k-1} = (f_k-f_{k-1}) g_k + f_{k-1} (g_k-g_{k-1}) = g_k \Delta f_k + f_{k-1} \Delta g_k $$
by fiddling the terms to make it work: in particular, I notice that the indices were wrong in my initial guess. Now I just sum this from $k=a$ to $k=b$, to get
$$ f_b g_b - f_{a-1} g_{a-1} = \sum_{k=a}^b g_k \Delta f_k + \sum_{k=a}^b f_{k-1} \Delta g_k, $$
and pushing one of these to the other side gives the formula
$$ \sum_{k=a}^b g_k \Delta f_k = (f_b g_b - f_{a-1} g_{a-1}) - \sum_{k=a}^b f_{k-1} \Delta g_k. $$
Okay, now I've remembered what the formula is, let's apply it. I know how to sum $a^k$, but not $k a^k$ (well, I do, but let's pretend I don't for the purpose of the exercise), and if $g_k = k$, we obviously have $ \Delta g_k = 1 $, so this looks like the way to go. Therefore I'm going to have to take $\Delta f_k = a^k$. Of course I know a way to go from here to a valid $f_k$:
$$ f_k = f_0 + \sum_{j=1}^k \Delta f_j = f_0 + \sum_{j=1}^k a^j = f_0+\frac{a^{n+1}-a}{a-1}, $$
and taking $f_0=a/(a-1)$ gives the nice $f_k=a^{k+1}/(a-1)$. We can choose a different $f_0$, but it'll cancel out everywhere because the sum of $f_0 \Delta g_k$ telescopes and cancels with the contribution to the boundary terms, so let's make life easier to start with. Now, putting everything in that we've learnt so far,
$$ \sum_{k=1}^{n} k a^k = \frac{a^{n+1}}{a-1} n - 0 - \sum_{k=1}^n \frac{a^{k+1-1}}{a-1} 1 = \frac{ka^{k+1}}{a-1} - \frac{1}{a-1} \sum_{k=1}^n a^{k}, $$
and the latter sum we know; we end up with
$$ \sum_{k=1}^{n} k a^k = \frac{na^{n+1}}{a-1} - \frac{a^{n+1}-a}{(a-1)^2}, $$
which thankfully is also precisely
$$a\frac{d}{da}\frac{a^{n+1}-a}{a-1},$$
which does require some algebraic massaging to show, but is not too bad.