Orthogonal Projection Seems like I still don't get it, I think I am missing something important.

Let $V$ be an $n$ dimensional inner product space ($n \geq 1$), and $T\colon\mathbf{V}\to\mathbf{V}$ be a linear transformation such that:
  
  
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*$T^2 = T$
  
*$||T(a)|| \leq ||a||$ for every vector $a$ in $\mathbf{V}$;
  
  
  Prove that a subspace $U \subseteq V$ exist, such that $T$ is the orthogonal projection on $U$.

Now, I know these things:


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*The fact hat $T^2 = T$ guarantees that $T$ is indeed a projection, so I need to prove that T is an orthogonal projection (I guess this is where $||T(a)|| \leq ||a||$ kicks in).

*To do this I can prove that:


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*For every $v$ in $ImT^{\perp}$, $T(v) = 0$

*Alternatively, I can prove that for every $v$ in $ImT$ and $u$ in $KerT$, $(v,u)=0$.

*$T$ is self-adjoint (according to Wikipedia)

*The matrix $A = [T]_{E}$ when $E$ is an orthonormal basis, is hermitian (this is equivalent to the previous point).

*What else?



I've been thinking about it for quite some time now, and I'm pretty sure there is something big I'm missing, again. I just don't know how to use the data to prove any of these things.
Thanks!
 A: One approach to this is by using Pythagorean Theorem. You fill in the details.
Indeed, suppose that $T \psi \in Im T$. Note that $V = Ker T \oplus Ker T^\bot$. Now write $T \psi = k + k'$ where $k \in Ker T$ and $k' \in Ker T^\bot$. We get that
$$\|k'\|^2 \ge \|T k'\|^2 = \|T k + T k'\|^2 = \|T(T \psi)\|^2 = \|T \psi\|^2 = \|k\|^2 + \|k'^2\|,$$
from which we gather that $k = 0$. Therefore $T \psi \in Ker T^\bot$.
Thus $Im T \subset Ker T^\bot$. On the other hand if $\phi \in Im T^\bot \cap Ker T^\bot$, then one can show that $\phi \in Im T^* \cap Ker T^*$. (Because $Im T^\bot = Ker T^*$.) One can also show that $T^*$ is a projection. Let $\phi = T^* \psi$. Then $T^* \psi = T^* T^* \psi = T^* \phi = 0$. Hence $\phi = 0$. Since $V = Im T \oplus Im T^\bot$, we get that $Ker T^\bot \subset Im T$.
A: Here is an approach which doesn't use the decomposition of $V$ into a subspace and its orthogonal complement, nor finite dimension for that matter. However, I'll use the following characterization of orthogonal projection: A linear map $T\colon V\to V$ such that $T^2=T$ and such that $\langle v-T(v),T(w)\rangle=0$ for all $v,w$.
I'll take the complex case as there are some extra details, but the real case is analogous.
So we use the inequality $\Vert T(a)\Vert^2\leq\Vert a\Vert^2$ with $a=v+T(t w)$, where $v,w\in V$ and $t>0$:
\begin{align*}\Vert T(v+T(tw))\Vert^2&\leq\Vert v+T(t w)\Vert^2\\\Vert T(v)\Vert^2+2\operatorname{Re}\langle T(v),T(t w)\rangle+\Vert T(t w)\Vert^2&\leq\Vert v\Vert^2+2\operatorname{Re}\langle v,T(t w)\rangle+\Vert T(t w)\Vert^2\\\Vert T(v)\Vert^2+2\operatorname{Re}\langle T(v),T(t w)\rangle&\leq\Vert v\Vert^2+2\operatorname{Re}\langle v,T(t w)\rangle\\t^{-1}\Vert T(v)\Vert^2+2\operatorname{Re}\langle T(v),T(w)\rangle&\leq t^{-1}\Vert v\Vert^2+2\operatorname{Re}\langle v,T(w)\rangle,\end{align*}
where the last line is obtained from the previous one because $t>0$. Letting $t\to\infty$ we obtain
\begin{align*}2\operatorname{Re}\langle T(v),T(w)\rangle\leq 2\operatorname{Re}\langle v,T(w)\rangle\end{align*}
for all $v,w$. Simplifying the "$2$" term and using the same inequality with $-v$ in place of $v$ yields
$$\operatorname{Re}\langle T(v),T(w)\rangle=\operatorname{Re}\langle v,T(w)\rangle$$
for all $v,w$. For a complex number $z$, we have $\operatorname{Im}(z)=\operatorname{Re}(-iz)$, so using the equality above with $iw$ in place of $w$ yields
$$\operatorname{Im}\langle T(v),T(w)\rangle=\operatorname{Im}\langle v,T(w)\rangle$$
for all $v,w$. So the last two equalities give us
$$\langle T(v),T(w)\rangle=\langle v,T(w)\rangle$$
for all $v,w$, and this means that $T$ is an orthogonal projection (onto $T(V)$), according to the definition above.
A: A different proof in the finite-dimensional case:
Using Schur triangularization there exists an orthonormal basis $\{v_1, \ldots, v_n\}$ for $V$ such that the matrix of $T$ is upper triangular:
$$\begin{bmatrix}
t_{11} & t_{12} & t_{13} & \cdots & t_{1n}\\
0 & t_{22} & t_{23} & \cdots & t_{2n} \\
0 & 0 & t_{33} & \cdots & t_{2n} \\
\vdots & \vdots & \vdots & \ddots & \vdots \\
0 & 0 & 0 & \cdots & t_{nn}
\end{bmatrix}$$
We wish to prove that the matrix is diagonal. From $T^2 = T$ it follows directly that $t_{ii} \in \{0,1\}$ for all $1\le i\le n$.
Assume that for some $1 \le k \le n$ we have $t_{ij} = 0$ for all $1 \le j \le k-1$ and $1 \le i \le j-1$.
If $t_{kk} = 1$ then
$$\sum_{i=1}^{k-1}|t_{ik}|^2+1=\sum_{i=1}^{k}|t_{ik}|^2 = \left\|\sum_{i=1}^{k} t_{ik}v_i\right\|^2 = \|Tv_k\|^2 \le \|v_k\|^2 = 1$$
so $t_{1k} = t_{2k} = \cdots = t_{(k-1)k} = 0$.
If $t_{kk} = 0$, notice that $t_{ik} \ne 0$ for some  $1 \le i \le k-1$ implies $t_{ii} = 0$. Indeed, we have
$$T(v_i+\overline{t_{ik}}v_k) = \sum_{r=1}^{k-1}\overline{t_{ik}}t_{rk}v_r + t_{ii}
v_i = \overline{t_{ik}}\sum_{r=1\\ r \ne k}^{k-1}t_{rk}v_r + (t_{ii}+|t_{ik}|^2)v_i$$
and hence 
$$t_{ii}+|t_{ik}|^2 = \left|\left\langle T(v_i+\overline{t_{ik}}v_k), v_i\right\rangle\right|\le \|T(v_i+\overline{t_{ik}}v_k)\| \le \|v_i+\overline{t_{ik}}v_k\| = \sqrt{1+|t_{ik}|^2}$$
so it cannot be $t_{ii}=1$.
Now we have
$$Tv_k = T^2v_k = \sum_{i=1}^{k-1}t_{ik}Tv_i=\sum_{i=1}^{k-1}t_{ik}t_{ii}v_i = 0$$
since $t_{ik} \ne 0$ implies $t_{ii} = 0$. In particular $t_{1k} = t_{2k} = \cdots = t_{(k-1)k} = 0$. 
Since the base case is vacuously true, by induction we conclude that the matrix is diagonal. Therefore $T$ can be represented by a diagonal matrix with only $0$ and $1$ on the diagonal, so $T$ is an orthogonal projection.
