I've been having trouble with $\epsilon$-$\delta$ proofs of multivariable limits, even simple ones like $$\lim_{ \begin{pmatrix} x \\ y \\ \end{pmatrix} \to \begin{pmatrix} 1 \\ 2 \\ \end{pmatrix} }{x^2\over x+y}={1\over3}$$ I can't move (much) beyond stating the definition $$(\forall\begin{pmatrix} x\\ y\\ \end{pmatrix})(\forall\epsilon>0)(\exists\delta>0) (\lvert \begin{pmatrix} x \\ y\\ \end{pmatrix} - \begin{pmatrix} 1\\ 2\\ \end{pmatrix} \rvert<\delta \longrightarrow \lvert{x^2\over x+y}-{1\over3}\rvert<\epsilon) $$ Are there any tips or resources on how to prove multivariable limits?
Also, I know (1,2) is in the domain of the function, which is how I found 1/3. My problem is with $\epsilon-\delta$ proofs in more than one variable.
It's my first question here so I apologise if I made anything I shouldn't have.