Assume some sequence $\{ a_n \}_{n=1}^\infty$ has a limit $L\in \Bbb R$. Then we can pick some fixed real number greater than zero which we call $\epsilon$, and assert there exists a positive integer $N$ dependent on $\epsilon$, so we could write this $N$ in functional notation as $N(\epsilon)$, such that if $n \geq N(\epsilon)$, then
$$|a_n - L|<\epsilon\tag{1}$$
In these proofs $\epsilon$ is a dummy variable that is some fixed real number greater than zero, that we don't in general need to know explicitly numerically, since we then extend the concept to all $\epsilon>0$ in the limiting process of convergence which follows since our $\epsilon$ was arbitrary, and so can be taken as small as we like. We could equivalently state the above limiting process in terms of some other number $\xi=\frac{\epsilon}{2}$. What we then have to do is play the $\epsilon$, $N(\epsilon)$ game again with $\xi$, $N(\xi)$, and find an$N(\xi)$, such that if $n \geq N(\xi)$, then
$$|a_n - L|<\xi$$
Here nothing is broken in the definition of convergence - you still have a positive real number $\xi$ that bounds the difference $|a_n - L|$ for all $n\ge N(\xi)$.
For two convergent sequences you want the analogous result to (1):
$$|(a_n + b_n)-(L+M)| <\epsilon$$
so you can say $\{a_n +b_n\}_{n=1}^\infty$ has a limit $L+M\in \Bbb R$. To do this you just do the same thing that you did with one convergent sequence to the two sequences individually after splitting them up with the triangle inequality; that is given an $\epsilon_1>0$ such that for all $n\ge N(\epsilon_1)$ we have $|a_n - L|<\epsilon_1$, and given an $\epsilon_2>0$ such that for all $n\ge N(\epsilon_2)$ we have $|b_n - M|<\epsilon_2$, and we do this in such a manner that $\epsilon_1+\epsilon_2=\epsilon$. Now pick $N=\max(N(\epsilon_1),\,N(\epsilon_2))$; we do this since if $N(\epsilon_1)<N(\epsilon_2)$, then, for all $n\ge N(\epsilon_1)$ we have $|a_{n} - L|<\epsilon_1$, but if $n<N(\epsilon_2)$ we have $|b_{n} - M|>\epsilon_2$, picking $N$ solves this. So for all $n\geq N$ we have
$$|(a_n + b_n)-(L+M)| \leq |a_n - L| + |b_n - M| < \epsilon_1 + \epsilon_2 = \epsilon$$
Note there is nothing special about $\epsilon/2$ proofs, we usually pick these as it makes it easier when dealing with two convergent sequences to just half the $\epsilon$, then you have for $n\geq N(\frac{\epsilon}{2})$
$$|(a_n + b_n)-(L+M)| \leq |a_n - L| + |b_n - M| < \epsilon/2 + \epsilon/2 = \epsilon$$
which proves convergence since $\epsilon$ was arbitrary. Note how you fix your $\epsilon$ and then work around it i.e., one minute you look at $|a_n - L|<\epsilon$ for $n\ge N(\epsilon)$, then you may need to switch to $|a_n - L|<\frac{\epsilon}{2}$ for $n\ge N(\frac{\epsilon}{2})$, but the $\epsilon$ is the same in each case.