Prove that all elements occur in the same number of distinct sets given these conditions Anyone know how to answer/attempt this question?

There are $n \geq 2 $ sets each containing 10 elements each. Any 2 sets contain 1 element in common and each 2 elements are only in the same set once.
Prove all elements occur in the same number of distinct sets.

Clarified in the comments: "each 2 elements are only in the same set once" means that if we pick any two elements, they will be found together in the same set exactly once, although each element separately could occur in multiple sets.
 A: Let the collection of sets be $\mathcal{A} = \{A_1, A_2, A_3, \ldots, A_n\}$. Let $X = \cup \mathcal{A}$ be the universe of elements.
For $x,y \in X$, let $k_x$ be the number of sets in $\mathcal{A}$ that contain $x$, and let $k_{x,y}$ be the number of sets in $\mathcal{A}$ that contain $x$ and $y$.
Then we have
$$
9k_x = \sum_{y \ne x} k_{x,y},
$$
because both sides count the number of pairs $(A, y)$, where $y \ne x$, $A \in \mathcal{A}$, and $x,y \in A$.
But we are also given that there is a unique set containing $x$ and $y$, so $k_{x,y} = 1$ for all $x,y \in X$. Therefore
$$
k_x = \frac{\sum_{y \ne x} 1}{9} = \frac{|X| - 1}{9}.
$$
In particular, the number of sets containing an element $x \in X$ (i.e. $k_x$) is the same for all $x$.
A: Let $L$ be a collection of $10$-element subsets of a set $P.$ Let's call the elements of $P$ "points" and the elements of $L$ "lines". Assuming that (1) there are at least two lines, (2) any two distinct lines intersect in exactly one point, and (3) there is exactly one line containing any two distinct points, I will show that each point belongs to exactly $10$ lines.
Let $p$ be any point. Choose a line $X$ which does not contain $p.$ 
(How do we know such a line exists? By hypothesis there are two distinct lines, call them $Y$ and $Z.$ If $x\notin Y$ or $x\notin Z,$ we're done. If $x\in Y\cap Z,$ choose points $y\in Y\setminus\{p\}$ and $z\in Z\setminus\{p\};$ then the line $X$ containing $y$ and $z$ can't contain $p.$)
Let $X=\{x_0,x_1,\dots,x_9\}.$ Let $Y_i$ be the unique line containing $p$ and $x_i.$ Since every line through $p$ meets $X$ in exactly one point, the lines $Y_0,\dots,Y_9$ are distinct and they are all the lines through the point $p.$
P.S. The structure we're talking about is called a projective plane of order $9;$ it has $9^2+9+1=91$ points and $91$ lines; there are $10$ points on each line and $10$ lines through each point.
